"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Got a Job at a NightClub (need DJ Tips)

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Rudy_TubeSteak

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I recently hooked up a holiday job at my home town (pop 26,000 so its fairly small). It's what you call a yardie/glassie and just do the lil dirty jobs at the nightclub and clean up tables and collect empty glasses.

The bonus part is that I get to have a chance to talk to a lot of people but not quite sure how to go about it. It's pretty good that I can walk up to people and do my thing and strike up a conversation but dont they just see me as an employee and not more than that? I might be promoted to work behind the bar so that'll be sweet but still clueless on how to work from this angle.

This is a perfect opportunity for me to pick up. And soo as I finish I can even probably catch up on the ones I have DJ'd on.

So yea I just need help on this. I'll let you guys know how things go
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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being a busboy generally will not get you as much attention as a bartender. bartenders get a lot of girls (if the venue is cool) so try and get promoted as soon as possible.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea yea funny haha..

By the way I got promoted to bartender so that's pretty sweet. I'll see how things work out this weekend.


Is there a DJ bartender on this board? If so please help me out on this. Thanks
 
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