well i ended up talking to her on my last available attempt, she seemed like she was waiting for me to talk to her.
We both left at the same time.
Funny thing was she's actually in the office for 3 weeks. her bags were for her visit to DC this weekend to visit her sister.
What i learned from her today was although i was 100% certain she gave me all those IOI's when we talked it was normal and i saw no sign of interests or disgust. I walked her to her station for about 15-20 minutes.
What i learned about myself today.
I lost all my skills to keep a conversation. My mind was going all crazy since i wasn't able to keep calm. I got her name and gave her mine.
I've had 9/10 approaches where i nailed conversation, set the mood, etc. but this one was about a 5.5/10.
I realized i was trying to hard to make the situation good instead of calming down and letting things flow. I kept conversation flowing but it wasn't the best.
A good example of how i was acting like:
Imagine a double sided balance scale and someone constantly trying to keep the scaled balanced and frantically adding/removing weights to keep it at the balance level.
I feel like all the experienced i acquired before my break up is all gone now. Girls coming to me i have no problem dealing with, now its just me approaching them.
We both left at the same time.
Funny thing was she's actually in the office for 3 weeks. her bags were for her visit to DC this weekend to visit her sister.
What i learned from her today was although i was 100% certain she gave me all those IOI's when we talked it was normal and i saw no sign of interests or disgust. I walked her to her station for about 15-20 minutes.
What i learned about myself today.
I lost all my skills to keep a conversation. My mind was going all crazy since i wasn't able to keep calm. I got her name and gave her mine.
I've had 9/10 approaches where i nailed conversation, set the mood, etc. but this one was about a 5.5/10.
I realized i was trying to hard to make the situation good instead of calming down and letting things flow. I kept conversation flowing but it wasn't the best.
A good example of how i was acting like:
Imagine a double sided balance scale and someone constantly trying to keep the scaled balanced and frantically adding/removing weights to keep it at the balance level.
I feel like all the experienced i acquired before my break up is all gone now. Girls coming to me i have no problem dealing with, now its just me approaching them.