"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good way to ask a girl out?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nooooo bro. Please don't do this...

Go on the date first. If this sports thing isn't a date, and there's friends involved, then schedule another get together later on where it's just you and her. Even with the sports idea you can get some kino in, get her comfortable with your touch.

On the actual date, escalate, make some sexual stuff happen (not sex, but maybe some hand holding, cuddling, even kissing).

Then, when you KNOW 100% that she's interested and wants to be "exclusive", ask her out, if she hasn't already asked you out. But be up front about it, to her face. No notes, no texts, always to the face.

Good luck, bro.
 
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Also, be sure that this girl isn't your only choice. If things don't work out with her, don't get oneitis. Spin plates, and make sure she knows you have other options.
 
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MusicMan450 said:
Also, be sure that this girl isn't your only choice. If things don't work out with her, don't get oneitis. Spin plates, and make sure she knows you have other options.
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What does spinning plates have to do with this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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