"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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fivedramaclubs

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So next time at school (high school) i plan on talking to this cute girl I don't know. I'm gonna ask her a question about school (Is it a day 1 or day 2?) Then she'll answer blah. And she's in the math honor society like me, so i'll be like "hey you're in the math honor society right?" she says yea...and i say "do u no when we're holding elections?" and then the convo goes. good idea?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is definately safe dude. Then again, its low risk, low reward. If you don't change the subject, or bring energy to it, its gonna be boring.
I'd suggest a bit more direct, its not like you have to hide your attraction.
 
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Usually asking dumb **** gets girls attentions...

Ex.
Setting: in math class
What you do: ask if this is math class.
 
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