"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good social psychology books?

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Not like textbooks, but any good books on social psychology relating more specifically to the type of stuff taught here on this site?
I took a social psych. class and there was a section on attracting people etc., a lot of the same stuff that gets discussed here, very interesting but it was only a tiny section of the book.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pathways to bliss-Mythology and personal transformation by Joseph Campbell

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover by Dr. Paul Dobransky

Magick in theory and practice by Aleister Crowley

Irrational Man by William Barrett

These will build the foundation for your new self.
 
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Kurt Lewin has been regarded as the father of social psychology. I just ordered two books by him on amazon for a presentation I have this week.
 
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