You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ElStud said:Alright, well I finally have a car and a driver's license, so I no longer have to rely on friends for rides. And I was wondering, what places do girls around my age(in their 20's) mostly hang out during the day?
Robyn923b said:-College campuses
-Coffee shops
-Shopping centers
-Parks
-Amusement parks
-Parking lots
-The street
-The bus
-The train
-The airplane
-The beach
-The line at the DMV
-Bookstores
-Restaurants
-Any kind of class
-Pretty much anywhere where there is daylight. Hence, the name daygame![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've been around here, long enough to know I've been here for a few years. What does that say about you?scribblec said:omg hes still around lol
how has the last few years been elstud? any success yet did those pokemon noises ever work out for u