"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good or Bad sign that I often find women staring at me in public and then quickly

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Looking away. Some of them are decent too hot, they often have a look of indifference on their faces or downright disgust when they look at me. What gives?:confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mostly if a girl stares at you and then looks away when you notice her, good sign,

you also say sometimes in disgust, instead of analysing too much just go up and try conversating with them, if they seem very interested and good eye contact, then your in there.
 

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well your best bet is to approach them and say "hey what was that look for?" and smile...if they are interested they will act shy and make up some excuse...my friend uses it all the time when we are out to chat up girls that check him out...no use in speculating further thread/
 

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Well, you had to be looking too to know they were staring right? Maybe they were just repulsed by you.

Lol.

I'm kidding. But who cares man? You're starting to sound like some teenage attention wh0re that gets off on guys staring at them. Who knows what they were thinking. Maybe next time you should go up and ask.

-Scars
 

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doesnt matter. Are you approacing them or are you running to an internet forum asking why girls are looking at you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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