"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good Movies to watch on a date?

WhAcKeD!

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Hey everyone. Theres this girl I use to be really interested in, to much **** was happening so I nexted her ass. Now she comes back to me after dumping her boyfriend and wants to start hanging out alot more. She asked if we could hang out in my basement and watch some movies, so obviously she wants something to happen if this was her idea. I was just wondering what would be some good movies to get her in the mood of a make out session or even sex for that matter. Good comedies, horror (she loves horror movies), just any recommended movies that could kinda tip her off, thanks alot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You could always just go with her and pick and rent them out together. It always sucks when you put in a movie that you picked out and it's something they either hate or seem a billion times on their own.

Of course, I don't really think it matters what movie, you can probably manage to put her in the mood on your own without the aid of some movie leading the way.
 

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A lot of people aren't Nick Cage fans, but his romantic comedies are pretty entertaining. Try "It Could Happen To You" or "The Family Man". If she's at all into that crap, she'd enjoy them, and possibly get in the mood.
 

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shrek and shrek 2....so adorable
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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