"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good Morning Texts

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PapiChulo

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After drinking until 4am on the town, you send it at 2pm the next day.
 

Zerro

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PapiChulo said:
After drinking until 4am on the town, you send it at 2pm the next day.
That's what I tend to do as well. In general don't send them unless you have a reason to but go ahead and respond if she sends ones.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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runner83

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By you - never...

if she sends them, its a good indication of interest, feel free to respond, but preferably not straight away...i have a handy excuse that I leave my personal phone in my work car, hence natural not to check my phone for several hours at a time (which is actually the case).
 

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I agree with runner83. Texting her early is a bad idea. She wakes up hungover/grumpy/with her ex and she's got you ready for the day.

In a good relationship it seems the woman is leading the communication and all the man has to do is accept or reschedule her offers.
 

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i remember my ex fwb did that all the time! i had no job at the time and she kept texting me at like 8 am. man half the time i just send some ****ty reply hoping she would gtfo the other times i didn't even bother replying.
 
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