"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good c and F response to this?

Aspiring_DJ

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I was at the gym today and asked the girl working there (hb8) for one one of the met-rx shake thingys. There was a deal this month where a certain kind is 2$ so when i went to get one i held it up and asked if this was the one on sale. She said hold on and walked over to me because she said she couldnt see from that far away(it was only like 6 feet away. What would been a good c and f response to this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ARrocket

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Wow, I bet that was just an excuse to get closer to me (make it obvious it's a joke)

I think you just couldn't see ME well enough

Something like that...
 

Gangster Of Love

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"Look grandma, put your glasses on!!!"
 

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ARrocket said:
Wow, I bet that was just an excuse to get closer to me (make it obvious it's a joke)

I think you just couldn't see ME well enough

Something like that...
i like those
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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