"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gone, and wanting no strings attached.

Patrick124

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Summer is approaching, and I'm in kind of a bad position. In one hand, I have a unofficial "girlfriend" who I care about moreso than just to NEXT her[she implied I'm her bf to someone], but in the other hand..its summer baby.

Basicly..I'm gone from July 3rd-25th. Thats almost half my summer. Half of my summer where i want to get wild-and crazy hooking up with who I want when I want, no strings attached.
My girls also in France for ALL of July[i might not even see her until after shes back from vacation now..], so I assume she wants to let loose too?lol though those french people might not be able to please her.

So my question: How do I go about this. You know..put the relationship on "hold" for vacation-time? I guess you could say I sound afc-ish, but...i want her to be here when I get back...

If this is impossible, let me know. peace.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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UltimateScoundrel

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You've got two options as I see it. Don't tell her ****, get crazy and hook up with tons of girls while she's away. Hope she doesn't find out.

Or, tell her how you feel, see what she says. She may be thinking the exact same thing as you.
 

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When it comes to break ups you should always tell it up straight

The way I see it, you have these options...

1. Simply 'breakup'

2. Tell her because of the circumstances you believe you shouldn't date until July is over. But if feelings still remain by August, you'll give it a shot

3. Do the filthy on her (your a pr*ck if you select this option by the way)
 

Patrick124

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aith thanks guys. I'm gonna tell her that "under these circumstances i think we should wait until we're both back form vacation and see where things take us form there, becasue i'lll be able to drive again."
 
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