Going to London! Where do I go? What do i see? chicks???

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Kitsune

Don Juan

Sep 2, 2005

Originally posted by wellHUNGjury
Thanks for the suggestions!

If this Thai place lets girls in for free, wouldn't this be one of the places where most girls are????

Looking forward to my trip.

Hmmm... yeah, you would think that, wouldn't you.
It is full of asians, if that's what you're looking for, but most of the girls will try to get boys to go with them, that way, not only do they not look desperate, but will also persuade them to buy the overpriced (seriously overpriced) drinks they have on offer.

The place is really bad, last time I went there the floor was covered with a thin layer of dirty water, and half the lights weren't working.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.