"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Going to horse race; what to wear?

kingwilliam

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Whats up guys?

I am going to a horce race in Tennessee called the Iroquois Steeplechase.

It is a very classy social event with an atmosphere kind of like the Kentucky Dirby. I am trying to figure out what would be good to wear at an event like this. I hear it's a dress to impress event. The weather is going to be warm, probably 75 degrees, so I don't wanna wear a jacket.

I'm thinking a nice set of non pleated slacks and a button up with cuff links, no tie.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Worsted wool short sleeve collared shirt, with tank top. Black slacks black shoes.

There's a chance of afternoon thunderstorms so a black or white long umbrella might be in the cards as well.
 
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that is the KD of steeplechasing. You will see some nice ass.

Just dress nice casual. slacks or kakhis and if it's cool a polo or hillfiger shirt tucked in. maybe a sportsjacket if it's not so cool

you dont' want to be TOO fancy becuase you will be having to move around. you have to have funcional attire on at the horse track
 

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Damn. Judging from the title, I thought you meant the Preakness which is where I'll be this weekend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would say if you want to wear cologne with the weather being warmer, go with a lighter scent. I went to a horse race in WV years ago, but it was more like dress to keep your @$$ warm (winter).
 

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Ol'BlueEyes said:
Damn. Judging from the title, I thought you meant the Preakness which is where I'll be this weekend.

of all 3 triple crown races I dislike the preakness the most.

first of all going there, Pimlico might as well be in south central LA. it's bad. very bad. it's run down and that's not a place I want to be caught at night.

the race itself is like the girls gone wild version of the triple crown. nothing like hte kentucky derby. more partying.. hardcore partying. I can hardcore party at a club, i come to the races to see a good race.

the race is usually watered down. there are better races on your avg Saturday grade 2 stakes races at Santa Anita and definately Saratoga. I do like the manhatten handicap, the race before the preakness however. one of the better turf races in the country.

Nothing beats Keeneland. Saratoga comes close but even when it's snowing outside keeneland is a notch above the rest of america when it comes to day in day out bigtime racing.
 
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