"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Going to Greece.

Gunner26

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Going to keep this one as short as possible. Looking for what other people's game plans might be for this situation,

Next week I'm going to Greece with my university for 8 days. We are going all over mainland Greece and staying in 5/6 different hotels.

40-45 people on the trip. Even mix guys:girls. I have spoken to 10-15 of them before, the rest are people I have seen on my course, never really spoken too.

Rooms are shared - 2 people to a room.

Days start 8am, finish mid afternoon.

Going with 3 people I'm really good friends with. 2 Guys, 1 Girl (HB6.5)

Now I'm rooming with the girl, her idea. I used to have a thing for her, pretty sure she knows it, got over it though and she has a boyfriend now who I'm good friends with anyway. We've spoken about arrangments for if I bring somebody back, she's either crashing with the other guys or waiting in the restaurant bar haha.

Just wondering what you guys approaches might be. There is some talent going on this trip for sure, and alot of the guys who are going do seem pretty AFC.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do your hair like Mikel Arteta and she'll be frothing at the minge fella. ;)
 

Gunner26

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Haha, if only I could do my hair like Arteta, as it is I've got curly hair, which I keep cropped short most of the time, think Wilshere short.

And I'm not looking to get with the girl I'm rooming with, it'd be a step backwards for me. I realised last year, me wanting to get with this girl actually stopped me from looking elsewhere.

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Do you know how to speak Greek? Probably not. This is obviously going to be your biggest hindrance. You'd be better off meeting local girls and what not. A foreigner always brings a shroud of mystery.

If you refer to getting with girls from your local excursion group, you would be wise to try to get to know the people that you aren't familiar with. If there are girls there that you may have an attraction to, it would be an easy target to pull one-night-stands.

Gervinho's hairstyle is a real magnet to attract broads. You might wanna give that a try.
 

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Nope, not a single word. Booklet we got for the trip has a couple Greek phrases but that's it.

Yes I was referring more to the girls in the group I'm with, I agree getting to know the people I don't really know is a good start, I've got a bit of a flirty relationship with one of the girls going that I have already met, but that's it, got to try and step it up.

Can't really pull of the Gervinho style my forehead isn't that big :(

Gunner
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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