"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going on a Seeking Arrangement date

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This is currently scheduled for Monday. In all my time on this site, I have never actually gone on a date with someone. Just had them over. Her profile said she was determined to find an on investor for a few businesses she wanted to start. I asked her about that and she said why don't we talk about it in person. I asked when she's free. She says how about Monday. I ask where and when she wants to meet. She says a bookstore at 11:30am. I'm not going to invest in her business ideas. I'm just doing this to go through the motions and because she's kinda hot, but not really hot. Not as hot as the hooker I fvcked the other night. I don't expect to see her any more than this one time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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