"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going off to university

Monty

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My last day of high school is tomorrow, and at the end of this summer I'll be shipping out to a small university out east. Though I know a few people who are going there it will, by far, be pretty much new.

Any thoughts on what the transition will be like, especially in respect to the lay-deez?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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foomee

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I live in Cali, so I have no clue what girls on the east coast are like.
But I just finished my first year of college, and I know what most freshman girls are like.
In college, since you'll be living in the dorms, it is SO much easier to hookup with a girl. It'll be hard if you want a steady LTR, but one night stands are a piece of cake. College girls, especially freshman, they'll be partying every night, every weekend, and they can be as horny as fvck. There's going to be a lot of drinking and smoking, and all sorts of stuff you might not be used to. But hooking up with a girl, especially at parties, is really easy. Just use your best judgement, and try not to get any stds. Also, try to get a wide range of friends. Find a group, and also become friends with many other people from different groups as well as sports. Rugby and Tennis parties at my school were the shiz. Oh, and just have fun. Freshman year is supposed to be your funnest year.
 

brenbaus

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it depends on what part of the east coast you move to, the south is full of uber-religious chicks who wont do anything until they get married (and they mean it, they wont drink, smoke, fvck, anything unless you have been with them for years). And really easy chicks. I dont know about the north cause i have never been up there
 

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Find a promiscuous wingman. Crash parties and act alpha / loud / funny / AMOG the **** out of everyone. Don't ever go back to that same place again, unless the guys are total AFCs. They will worship you if they are. Rinse, repeat.

You can also make friends with fat beer-guzzling party chicks. They usually know where all the free beer & hunch punch is. You won't pay a red cent to get laid.
 
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