ok i used to be so afc that i have yet to kiss a girl out side of truth or dare. so i think i got it all down, besides one thing. what do you do after you kiss her for the first time? Do you just stare and wait for her to say something, or what? any other advice well be appreciated.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
going in for the first kiss
- Thread starter danny987
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It doesn't really matter what you do to be honest. Just make sure you don't ask her stupid questions such as "Did I kiss good" etc. (Since you will come off as insecure and unconfident.)
If anything, if there is an awkward silence and you are unsure what to say after the kiss say something a long the lines of, "You enjoyed that a little way too much."
(In a teasing manner with a big smile.)
If anything, if there is an awkward silence and you are unsure what to say after the kiss say something a long the lines of, "You enjoyed that a little way too much."
(In a teasing manner with a big smile.)