"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Going away for the summer....but I got my g/f staying home. Need some GOOD advice..

shark

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I'm leaving in a few days for the summer. I'll be back in 6 weeks or so. Anyway, were allowed to have cell phones so we can talk. But my question is how often? I don't want to be an ******* b/c things are going great, but I don't want to have a bad time b/c of her.

So, my question is to you DJ's...

1) How often should I call her? What if she calls ME everynight or asks ME to call her more often?
2) If there is another girl i'm interested in, AS A DJ...would you go for it?


and 3 is a little off top of going away but even though things are great between us..I feel like i really like her. I'm REALLY picky when it comes to girls so if i lose one, it means a lot more then the average guy who can just get another girl and be happy b/c im not. I feel like if we ended things, i'd be CRUSHED as hell and want to just not prepare, but any advice on stuff to do to make sure i'm not this "crushed AFC".

Usually if i'm dating a girl it's for the ass and idc what happends, but it's diffrent in this case.

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude, do you want some BAD advice instead. Dump her:p Because it would amuse me.

Oh and we all are really picky when it comes to girls. And plus, average could possible mean (if ur talking about median), that half the guys in the world are more picky than that.


ng away but even though things are great between us..I feel like i really like her. I'm REALLY picky when it comes to girls so if i lose one, it means a lot more then the average guy who can just get another girl and be happy b/c im not. I feel like if we ended things, i'd be CRUSHED as hell and want to just not prepare, but any advice on stuff
 

PiHiPlaya

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Dude, Cheat on her, every chance you get. Just Spread the lovin around.

Or you could be one of those good guys that stay faithful. If you really like the girl stay faithful... but if another girl is into you and hotter than said girlfriend, psh go for it.

You're young, these relationships aren't meant to last... have as much fun as you can while you're young... or else you'll regret it when you're 40.
 

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yeah i think thats what i'll do, I need to have fun..
 

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Originally posted by shark
yeah i think thats what i'll do, I need to have fun..
Okay, go ahead and listen to that clown and ruin your relationship. If you cheat once now, you'll find it that much harder to resist the temptation to cheat in the future. The choice is easy: have fun with multiple girls, or have a relationship with one. You can't and shouldn't do both.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Okay, go ahead and listen to that clown and ruin your relationship. If you cheat once now, you'll find it that much harder to resist the temptation to cheat in the future. The choice is easy: have fun with multiple girls, or have a relationship with one. You can't and shouldn't do both.
I am
 

UltimateScoundrel

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It's just a stupid hs relationship. It won't last. Cheat like a mother****er then lie to her afterward. Works every time.
 

Gus

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She lies about how she looks everytime she puts on makeup. Which is every day. So think of that every time you think you should "respect" a girl or be "chivalrous"...99.9% of them are manipulative, controlling b!tches.

Trust me, I spent my entire highschool life with one girl...DON'T DO IT. Get around, meet people, fukk girls, have fun. Because it all ends in a few years and you'll be out on your own (you will not be with that same girl) with no time for that sh!t, unless you want to be Biff and end up cleaning cars for the rest of your life.

You will NOT meet that .01% in high school. The chances are 1 in 12 million that you will find "the one" the first time (assuming she is American, that half of the US population is female, and of that half, 10% are within your age group). If you think of it among the world, the chances are 1 in 350 million (assuming the earth has 7 billion occupants). Anyway, the point is...she's NOT the one, so don't treat her like it!
 
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