"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go for more lean look or big/strong look?

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Hey guys, I recently made a progress thread and have been thinking about how I am going to progress fitness wise this year. I'm currently obese, but think I hold my weight pretty well. Throughout the last 3-4 years I've fluctuated weights between 130kg > 90kg > 120k (current). This was because of the start of college when I lost most of my weight, and started weight training and eating. So now I have the fat strong guy look at 120kg.

More to the point, I've been basing my training on getting stronger and getting 'more muscle' as muscle weighs more than fat etc and you can hold it better. I've been told long term it's better to lose weight slowly, building that muscle which will enable you to burn more calories as you're holding more lean mass. However I've noticed that I'm getting jacked, like huge torso and quads and thinking this look may not be for the ladies..

The guys who are lean, don't even have to be fitness people but naturally lean tend to look better in general. I've just been thinking lately that i've possibly been overcompensating for something by focusing mainly on muscle growth and strength? I go 7 days a week and train pretty much at 90%.

I just find gym and fitness in general keeps me calm, let's me release my anger at the end of the day and look good in the mirror. When i was 90kg, I was muscleless, i was starved everyday on 1000 cal, miserable doing cardio workouts everyday but looked very good fxking good. What are your thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know there's a grey area, and it's not just a choice between looking large or going the lengthy skinny look, but I'm just so confused because I'm not sure whether I should be choosing my goals based on what I want, or what will benefit most for my future career/relationship other prospects. I.E be the guy your dream girl will want. Is it just a fairy tail?
 
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