Go Charlie Sheen:From IMDB

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Wilko

Master Don Juan

Mar 11, 2011

I'm pretty sympathetic towards Charlie (probably a bit of projection you know) I'd secretly love to see him win a glorious victory over his small, angry detractors, I'll admit it, but I'm not overly invested in the outcome.

Anyway, this made my freaking day.

The day that I walk downstairs in the morning to find two chicks that I consider goddesses having breakfast and give each one a kiss and say "good morning" individually is the day that I know that I'm doing okay. Especially when I do it in my Hollywood Hills mansion.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.