"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Go block someone elses c•ck.

LostAndConfused

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Hey guys, I've improved alot lately n hopefully the upcoming boot camp will have me improve more.....but I've noticed this same dámned roadblock that comes up every time I get into a nice conversation with a hot girl.

This roadblock as you can already tell is the c0ckblock. i havent seen one of htese threads recently.

i mean god dmnit i dont get the incentive behind doing such a thing.

get this, i'm talking to a girl practicing game on her, shes digging me im digging her and some AFC comes over who doesnt even have the balls to work his game on her but instead he just talks to us like this shît is some social club or somethin.

when this stupid shyt happens my game turns from me and her to listening to some idiot talk about his math homework or somethin stupid.

like "Hey LostAC, what did you get for question number 69 on the math test?"

"I dunno AFC, but I got the equation 'ME + HB10 - YOU = sexytime."


but thats just not all of it...theres a worse c0ckblocker out there.

GIRLS DOING IT TOO! ESPECIALLY IF THE B1TCH DOESNT KNOW THE GIRL YOUR WORKING GAME ON!!!

at this point I'm fine approaching a group of girls, but my game is strictly concerned with girls OUTSIDE of my high school.

but when im at a party or some public event and i'm talking to a beautiful girl, girls from my school who don't even talk to me will approach me. Why? WHY? out of pure jealousy? I'm not even friends with the b1tch and they don't even know the girl that I'm gaming, are people that low???

so heres my problem, twofold:
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1. When I'm in an engaging conversation and the girl is really interested, some asexual AFC has the bright idea "hey, they must be talking about something interesting!" and he "joins" in. Of course he's not an AMOG, but all chances of escalation go out the window....he doesn't know what we had been talking about, he brings up some uninteresting bullsh1t, depending on the situation the girl either wants him to leave or just wants to leave in general (some of my loserish friends have ruined me this way).

i'm not that great a player so that I can make out with a girl when an AFC is still talking to us.

not yet at least.

2. Girls from my school who never talk to me AT SCHOOL seem to think I'm the sh1t outside of school and they approach me. This automatically puts me in an awkward situation. I don't have anything to say to her, I don't WANT to say anything to her, what do I do? Should I just walk away as a male version of a sh1t test and if the girl I was gaming is interested enough she'll follow?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage

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LostAndConfused said:
1. When I'm in an engaging conversation and the girl is really interested, some asexual AFC has the bright idea "hey, they must be talking about something interesting!" and he "joins" in. Of course he's not an AMOG, but all chances of escalation go out the window....he doesn't know what we had been talking about, he brings up some uninteresting bullsh1t, depending on the situation the girl either wants him to leave or just wants to leave in general (some of my loserish friends have ruined me this way).
Those guys are like the little fish the hang's around sharks and nibble at the chum the big sharks feast on. I don't think its such a bad thing per se because now you have a third person that you can create more interesting conversation with. The AFC guy just wants to be a part of things and he won't be able to steal the girl away if you generally keep the conversation lively and interesting. He can't really hurt you in a situation like this but it is you who can hurt yourself if you let something like this bother you.


LostAndConfused said:
2. Girls from my school who never talk to me AT SCHOOL seem to think I'm the sh1t outside of school and they approach me. This automatically puts me in an awkward situation. I don't have anything to say to her, I don't WANT to say anything to her, what do I do? Should I just walk away as a male version of a sh1t test and if the girl I was gaming is interested enough she'll follow?
Game the new girl for a bit. Your original target must see with her own eyes that you are engaging with another girl that is interested in you while you somewhat now ignoring her. That automatically puts you in a higher value. Again this situation is something that you can use to your advantage and if you don't play it right then you will sabotage yourself.
 

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Stop whining. If you're after attractive girls, be prepared for competition. If you don't want competition, chase fat fugly chicks.

See the AFC guy joining in as an opportunity for you to shine. His lame presence there will make you look even better by comparison. Just focus on being the more interesting guy of the group.

If that guy is too lame and the girl doesn't like his presence, it's the perfect time to isolate. Seen girls giving each other the "let's go" eye contact when a lame guy is around and they want to bolt? Copy that, or just lead her somewhere else.

As for your #2, it's the chance for you to practice some social skills. Being able to engage anyone in a conversation will increase your social value and status.
 
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