"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jariel said:
You asked for constructive criticism, so I'll be honest. I think you could benefit a lot from losing some bodyfat. You have decent looks, but the extra weight gives you a cuddly, non-sexual presence.

I also agree with comments about your hair. Again, it has that safe, non-sexual look. Try to go with something more modern, or have it cut very short.
I agree with Jariel.

You look like your typical nice guy and that is what women might percieve you. If you hit the gym build some muscles and change your hair cut you will do great. You seem harmless and women tend to look for a guy with edge that scares them a bit. Then again I don't know your personality so I am judging you based on looks solely.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jariel said:
You asked for constructive criticism, so I'll be honest. I think you could benefit a lot from losing some bodyfat. You have decent looks, but the extra weight gives you a cuddly, non-sexual presence. This was the case with me when I was carrying extra weight and many other guys I know. Have a read in the health and fitness forum and (most important of all) educate yourself on weightloss, and try to get a decent diet and exercise routine.

I also agree with comments about your hair. Again, it has that safe, non-sexual look. Try to go with something more modern, or have it cut very short.
I agree with Jariel as well.

And my respect to the man. He nicely asked for a candid answer, so here's my (hopefully) constructive answer:

- You do have some fat to lose. I'd even say, quite some fat. You are not obese, but you are definitely fat.

That has been said, let's look at the positive things.

- You have a very good potential. You face is quite "regular", no weird nose, weird eyes, bad skin problems. Juts lose the fat, and your featues will be much much more defined.

- See, just by looking at your hairline, you are not going bald anytime soon.:D Trust me, for those have still have all their hair in their 20s, or 30s or even early 40s, it seems like no big deal, but for many others, it is a good blessing.

To sum things up: lose the fat first, get fit, and you will see, the haircut wardrobe and other things will come naturally as you get positive signs from people, that will encourage you to try a lot of things you never even dreamed about.
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Get a nice tan as well, women don't like a man who spends all of his times indoors.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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