jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
what does it mean when you ask a girl for gum and she takes gum out of her mouth and offers that to you. I know it means something but i forgot what
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
giving you the gum in her mouth
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
It means she wants to share her vile germs, pathogens, bacteria, and possibly viruses, with you.
Means she's sucked out all the sugar out of it, and doesn't want to toss it before she gets a new one.
Means she's sucked out all the sugar out of it, and doesn't want to toss it before she gets a new one.
KontrollerX
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It means either she's got bad manners or she's considering giving you a bl0wjob eventually.
TheDoctor
Don Juan
It means you are reading in to it too much.
It also means:
-- She doesn't dislike you
-- She is either teasing you or flirting with you.
Now you get the pleasure of finding out which it is.
It also means:
-- She doesn't dislike you
-- She is either teasing you or flirting with you.
Now you get the pleasure of finding out which it is.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
She's getting sexual with you. Its ON.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
coolf1r3
Don Juan
You say "Let's cut the sh1t and swap some spit."
LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
Tell her you have a big stick....long pause....... then say of gum while you look in her eyes with a sly grin and she'll get wet panties and what some.
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CP3WOO
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That's just awesome :yes:LoneSilver said:
That should've been your response. I'll have to use that one day. I would love to see the look on the chic's face. hahaha :rockon:
TheRealSupreme
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***** test. Stand up for yourself otherwise she will be trying to suck your **** and make you drink your own cumm.
Tell her you deserve better than handme down gum or anything that is used.
Tell her you deserve better than handme down gum or anything that is used.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
To the op...
She is trying to see if you will *accept* a gift that already been used. It's kinda like a slap in the face.
However, you could have pulled it around several ways.
If it were ME, and she offered that to me I would say I don't want that. And see what she did. She would either take out a new piece and give it to me, OR put it back in her mouth. Once she put it back in her mouth, I would look for an opening in the conversation to lean over and kiss her. Maybe in the middle of the conversation. Now, take the gum out of her mouth with your tounge. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then walk away.
To pull this off you have to be very ballsy. But, I've done **** like that before and it WILL work if you build the right kind of attraction with her.. build the sexual lust and tension in her eyes and then just go for it and see what happens.
On a similar note..
Props LoneSilver.
Witty, sexual innuendo in conversation WITH a sly grin.. golden stuff.
Its fun because you can see how far you push the envelope with someone. In Social norm, you don't talk about something sexual with someone. That would cause for a slap in the face or a rolling of the eyes look.
However. If you do it in a sly, witty tone and pull out the sex smile-- it will make MOST girls blush and smile back (some can't even hold eye contact). Finding someone with a strong wit is incredibly fun to flirt with. You can almost see the attraction and sexual lust building in her eyes. Just the fact that a man is so open about his sexuality and isn't scared about rejection is INCREDIBLY powerful/attractive to her.
It takes the right amount of different elements to make it work though. Too forward and you come off as creepy. Too funny/witty and you come off as a clown. You need the right timing and BALLS to pull this off.
She is trying to see if you will *accept* a gift that already been used. It's kinda like a slap in the face.
However, you could have pulled it around several ways.
If it were ME, and she offered that to me I would say I don't want that. And see what she did. She would either take out a new piece and give it to me, OR put it back in her mouth. Once she put it back in her mouth, I would look for an opening in the conversation to lean over and kiss her. Maybe in the middle of the conversation. Now, take the gum out of her mouth with your tounge. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then walk away.
To pull this off you have to be very ballsy. But, I've done **** like that before and it WILL work if you build the right kind of attraction with her.. build the sexual lust and tension in her eyes and then just go for it and see what happens.
On a similar note..
Props LoneSilver.
Witty, sexual innuendo in conversation WITH a sly grin.. golden stuff.
Its fun because you can see how far you push the envelope with someone. In Social norm, you don't talk about something sexual with someone. That would cause for a slap in the face or a rolling of the eyes look.
However. If you do it in a sly, witty tone and pull out the sex smile-- it will make MOST girls blush and smile back (some can't even hold eye contact). Finding someone with a strong wit is incredibly fun to flirt with. You can almost see the attraction and sexual lust building in her eyes. Just the fact that a man is so open about his sexuality and isn't scared about rejection is INCREDIBLY powerful/attractive to her.
It takes the right amount of different elements to make it work though. Too forward and you come off as creepy. Too funny/witty and you come off as a clown. You need the right timing and BALLS to pull this off.
LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
LOL!
LoneSilver
LoneSilver
mpimpin said: