I recently had one of my posts answered. And some guys said a girl didn;t like me. But i am writing this not out of spite or denial but because of something i heard. Tony Robbins says to always take every situation in the best light and even if the worst occurs at least others will appreciate your positive attitude and you will be able to cope with failure because you will only see the good. So in that light I want to ask everyone here a question. What is the point of answering negatively to a post or saying something like she doesn'lt like u? That kind of language only disempowers people. This is an idea that i would like everyone to consider. Who knows what effect our advice gives so we might as well empower people. Your thoughts on the matter are truly appreciated.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Giving advice on this website
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Because if from the post it's obvious that the girl doesn't like someone, then why would we lie to them and cause them embarassment by saying she does? Thinking positively is always good, but it won't change reality if she's already avoiding some guy like the plague.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
because if afcs wanted to be positive, they could do it by themselves. people don't come to this site so someone can tell them to keep doing wrong what they are already doing, they come here so someone can tell them how to do it right
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I was told I would get girls by fate. That I would just walk down the street and suddenly would see my soul-mate and some how have the confidence to approach her and everything. As a result of this I eventually became passive and had to find a site to motivate me (which I thank the posters of the DJ forum for motivation to get my life on track).
When people hear what they want to hear they generally become lazy or cling on to the false hope of something. During your lifetime you will walk past 1000s of girls better looking with better personality and more cash than this girl your talking about. I have attatched onto the false hope of girls before and its not fun when your friends say "she obviously likes you" and you end up getting rejected.
If everyone told you you could get any girl you want and stuff like that would you bother to improve yourself?
Maybe this girl does like you BUT don't put your life on hold for her ok? Still approach other girls. You see the reason why some people are pessimestic is because some people(not saying you are one) will just stop doing things they would otherwise be doing waiting for one girl.
Hope I helped and hope you get that girl
dont forget though shes one OF a million not one IN a million .
When people hear what they want to hear they generally become lazy or cling on to the false hope of something. During your lifetime you will walk past 1000s of girls better looking with better personality and more cash than this girl your talking about. I have attatched onto the false hope of girls before and its not fun when your friends say "she obviously likes you" and you end up getting rejected.
If everyone told you you could get any girl you want and stuff like that would you bother to improve yourself?
Maybe this girl does like you BUT don't put your life on hold for her ok? Still approach other girls. You see the reason why some people are pessimestic is because some people(not saying you are one) will just stop doing things they would otherwise be doing waiting for one girl.
Hope I helped and hope you get that girl
dont forget though shes one OF a million not one IN a million .Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
mad respect, love that sentenceOriginally posted by Green_Day
shes one OF a million not one IN a million