Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Giving a attention wh0res stuff back? yes/no?

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tomwesten27

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I recently posted here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=207488

Attention wh0re basically hung out with me alone in my home several times being a tease and not letting me escalate. Even after telling me she is not interested in me as a hook up, she would be sitting on my bed mentioning how her underwear in showing etc. and when I went for the move she wouldn't let me escalate.

I dropped her like a sack of sh!t and she has been NONE STOP blowing up my phone "I need my stuff back."

1 coat
5 bracelets
1 watch
2 rings
1 smoking pipe

I am ready to throw her crap in the garbage, but is that going to low? Or who gives a crap?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's her stuff just give it back and move on with your life. Why wouldnt you give it back? to teach her a lesson?
 
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Dump it on her front step, mail it to her, or leave it on your step and message her to come get it. Do NOT include a note with it. Do NOT let her use it as a means of getting in contact with you.
 
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toss it in the garbage and tell her you did, let her know how disgusted you are by her behavior
 
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just give her it back and be done
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes....why would you keep it? You going to sleep with it under your pillow then use her coat as a catch rag?

Give it back, like Desdinova said, dump it on her front door step, send her a text then block her number.

By keeping it you're acting like a BPD woman....and feeding the AW. Now she has a reason to contact you. She has a reason to see you. Get that $hit out of there.
 
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She's 20 years old and has a smoking pipe?
Can't say I've ever come across that before...

But yeah, just tell her to come get her stuff. Just stick it in a plastic bag or something and leave it on your front door.
 
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SoSuave666 said:
"You can have your coat and smoking pipe back, they are on my porch. As far as the jewelry, I wasn't sure whose they were so I gave them to my girlfriend. Sorry."

Then sit back and grab a bag of popcorn.
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LOL. Yeah, and make sure you have some type of recording device for when she starts slashing your tires, and takes a baseball bat to your windows!
 
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I can't believe this is even a thread... of course you give it back. She didn't even do anything wrong, you misinterpreted her interests. Women lead guys on all the time, just learn to see when she's leading you on and when it's real. You have zero right to throw away her things.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thank You guys. I put all her stuff in a bag and told her to meet me at a local coffee shop "on my way to work." Gave her, her stuff and said "here ya go, running late to work ttyl!"

End of story.
 
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