"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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give some tips ... if u have

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doopee

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hi there....

a new gril...around 23 years old... i feel that I am attracted to her... so how could I make her interested in me... how could I make her be close to me.. how could i get in touch with her

there are some gaps which may help me do that but I could not use them will .... these gaps are.. mobile ... sometimes she asked me to do some favor or duty work... we r living in the same house .. with our family...


please would u help me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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one more thing

sometimes she rides with me on my vehicale
 
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Jesus H Christ... Just give her a high 5. Seems to be a new trend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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start making sense, what the fvck are you on about? gaps? same house? what?
 
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doopee said:
we r living in the same house .. with our family...
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Wait... what? Is she your sister? God, I hope not.

Anyway how bout you read the bible? Nobody is going to give you advice unless it's a specific problem.
 
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Voice said:
Wait... what? Is she your sister? God, I hope not.

Anyway how bout you read the bible? Nobody is going to give you advice unless it's a specific problem.
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no no she is not my sister ..what r u saying :nervous:

she is not of my relatives...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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