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give me your number. her response: why?

Tails

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okay, this is kind of weird. i was just chatting to a fairly good looking big breasted girl who happens to live in the same area as me. who is 17, single and looking (is what her msn profile says). so far i think i did okay. didn't stay on so long. but i am not too sure how to follow up. do i ignore her the next day and the next, etc. or do i continue chatting?

[01:09:27 AM] me: wait for it
[01:09:29 AM] me: ===>
[01:10:09 AM] her: lol cute thats the cutest hair ive ever seen!
[01:10:46 AM] me: im thinkin of shavin it
[01:10:53 AM] her: *shock face!*
[01:11:03 AM] her: why would you do that?
[01:11:48 AM] me: for fun?
[01:11:49 AM] me: lol
[01:11:53 AM] me: nah i dunno
[01:12:09 AM] her: dont, its cute
[01:12:11 AM] her: :)
[01:12:30 AM] me: hmm okay
[01:12:35 AM] me: where do you live?
[01:12:49 AM] her: ****** (for privacy purpose)
[01:13:09 AM] me: umm
[01:13:10 AM] me: same
[01:13:10 AM] me: lol
[01:13:49 AM] her: oh, what a coincidence
[01:13:59 AM] her: usually people stop talking when i
say im from ****** (for privacy purpose)
[01:14:01 AM] her: haha
[01:14:09 AM] me: likewise.
[01:14:09 AM] me: lol
[01:14:21 AM] me: well i guess we don't need to do that since
we're both from ****** (for privacy purpose)
[01:14:21 AM] me: :D
[01:14:45 AM] her: haha no we dont
[01:15:15 AM] me: what do you do. tell me about yourself young (her name).
[01:15:43 AM] her: i dont do anything at the moment, cos i quit my job
[01:15:54 AM] her: so im looking for work..
[01:15:57 AM] her: and yourself?
[01:16:46 AM] me: i study at tafe, visual arts & technology.
[01:17:36 AM] her: what kind of job will you get out of that?
[01:18:14 AM] me: prolly graphic design. something that involves photo imagine/editing.
[01:18:18 AM] me: making posters, magazines.
[01:18:20 AM] me: stuff like that.
[01:18:36 AM] her: oOoOo sounds good :)
[01:18:47 AM] me: ahem... what do you like to do in your spare time?
[01:20:08 AM] her: uhh, usual girl stuff i suppose, shopping, parties, movies.. friends.. nothing real exciting
[01:20:22 AM] her: im a really uninteresting person :S
[01:20:31 AM] me: maybe i need to spice up your life a little@
[01:21:00 AM] her: haha
[01:21:11 AM] her: well that depends if youre as uninteresting as me?
[01:21:18 AM] her: what do you do in your spare time?
[01:21:56 AM] me: i like to sit on my ass sometimes. also i
sometimes go out to ****** (for privacy purpose) - for drives with my pal.
[01:22:05 AM] me: i mean, honestly. not much to do in ****** (for privacy purpose)
[01:22:11 AM] me: so i try my best.
[01:22:28 AM] me: school keeps me busy enough.
[01:23:21 AM] her: yes, that can be my excuse, there's nothing to do.. thats why im boring *shifty eyes*
[01:23:32 AM] her: :p
[01:24:10 AM] me: lol
[01:24:16 AM] me: you won't be so bored anymore ;)
[01:24:30 AM] her: hahah
[01:24:39 AM] me: give me your number.
[01:25:11 AM] her: why?
[01:25:37 AM] me: perhaps i will call you sometime, and we can have a talk?
[01:26:06 AM] her: but what if some day you get angry at me and do what everyones doing to that guy in the chat room :p (people were pasting a guys number in a chat room)
[01:26:20 AM] me: i don't go that low.
[01:26:24 AM] me: it's not my style sweetie.
[01:26:42 AM] me: anyway, i'm not going to beg for your number. either give it to me or don't.
[01:26:43 AM] me: :)
[01:27:31 AM] her: good to hear
[01:27:44 AM] her: and people say us ****** (for privacy purpose) people are uncivilised
[01:28:39 AM] her: can you keep up with what theyre saying in the room?
[01:28:54 AM] me: not really.
[01:29:38 AM] her: me neither :\
[01:36:16 AM] me: so what's your bra size?
[01:36:33 AM] * her is now Away (idle)
[01:37:33 AM] * her is now Online
[01:37:37 AM] her: hahaha
[01:37:41 AM] her: whats yours?
[01:38:09 AM] me: hopefully smaller than yours
[01:38:46 AM] her: well, id say it is
[01:38:48 AM] her: :)
[01:39:10 AM] me: sorry, just making conversation.
[01:39:47 AM] her: lol thats ok
[01:40:09 AM] her: nothing gets a conversation flowing better than an invasive question i suppose :p
[01:40:24 AM] me: yeah, and you're still typing!
[01:40:28 AM] me: so all is good.
[01:40:45 AM] her: well.. it seemed to have worked..
[01:40:47 AM] her: good job
[01:40:49 AM] her: :)
[01:41:01 AM] me: yay me
[01:41:18 AM] me: im going now.
[01:41:27 AM] me: i'll talk to you another time (name here)
[01:41:31 AM] her: oh ok
[01:41:39 AM] her: umm. what's your name?
[01:41:57 AM] me: sorry, lol.
[01:42:01 AM] her: haha
[01:42:02 AM] me: it's (name here). and i am 19.
[01:42:05 AM] me: how rude of me!
[01:42:10 AM] me: :$
[01:42:16 AM] her: lol, no its ok, i didnt ask
[01:42:23 AM] me: yeah, it's your fault.
[01:42:27 AM] her: hahah
[01:42:30 AM] me: anyway, talk later hunny bunny!
[01:42:37 AM] * me: is now Away

she was about to type something cause it said she was typing but i left too fast and she decided to stop, obviously.
 

tactic

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um...
 

Dirtheart

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I have a question as I see you meet a lot of women online. I'm not familiar with MSN and I've never tried talking to women online, so where do you find these profiles and how do you find people who live in your area? Is it a dating agency you pay for or a free site?
 

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pfft, like hell i'd pay to chat with a women. no... it's all free. i use a chat program called mIRC. they have different servers to connect to, a usa one, australian, whatever... there's a channel/room on it that you can usually find that is your home town. like for me, i go into a room where over 300 people come to chat everyday and you can meet lots of girls. and it's sometimes easy to even meet. i've met a few. just last week i had a date with a hot young gal who i met from there. and just before. i met another girl, was sort of random cause i didn't know she lived in the same area as me. like just around the corner. you'd be amazed how successful many girls you can find online.
then usually after a tiny bit of chat there, you ask for their MSN address, then the rest happens there. pics, asl, hobbies, etc.

people say its crap to chat with them online. i agree, but it's okay to find one, sweet talk them a lil, make it fast. get their number ASAP, and stop chatting to that girl as soon as you got the number. instead call. that's pretty much the plan after getting to know her a little. get the number and get the fuk off chat!
 

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[01:24:39 AM] me: give me your number.
[01:25:11 AM] her: why?

So I can take advantage of you?
So I can show you my whips and chains?
So I can club you over the head and drag you back to my cave?
So I can show you my infections?
So I can have someone to help clean up after I ma$turbate?
I'd like to get together with you and get to know you better.

Choose ONE response.
 

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why do you apologize to her? Jeez, you didn't do anything wrong. Your interests sound more boring than her and she IS boring. She lies to you about doing all these things then she says same here school keeps me pretty busy. Well... you gotta be a little above her even if you're sweet talking her. Bah.. I'd hate to stay on the computer and sweet talk a girl till I'm bored outta my mind. I just go out there and do my thing. Also, don't share all your information. It's enough for her to know that you live close by and that you're safe to talk and hang out with. That's enough. If she asks you a personal question you can ignore it and ask her something back, or you can joke about some stupid ass job or whatever and make her laugh etc... don't sound too similar to her. Be a little mysterious, make her wonder what it is you do, etc.
 

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i was just being honest with her that's all. i believe i am a really honest person and i always speak my mind. maybe a little too much eh?

it's just that whenever i talk to some nice girl i tend to act nice enough so i don't lose her somehow. i don't wanna be too ****y and tease her so much.

i'm not sure when to ask her for her number again or just somewhere to meet. perhaps it's too early? but then again, i can't just sit here and chat with her all night. how long am i suppose to chat with her before getting her number or to arrange a meeting place?
 

So pimp its scary

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"Can I get your number? Why?"
- "So I can call you twenty times a day, and talk to each other every waking minute so that you can help fill my otherwise meaningless existance and bring me to a higher plane of existance where you and I can flourish for eternity." Or someother blatantly exageratted spiel.

STOP MEETING CHICKS ONLINE AND GO MEET THEM IN PERSON DAMMIT!
 

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i am doing both at the same time. settle down, lol. nothing wrong with meeting girls online. especially if they live around the corner from my house ;)
 

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Originally posted by Tails
i was just being honest with her that's all. i believe i am a really honest person and i always speak my mind. maybe a little too much eh?

it's just that whenever i talk to some nice girl i tend to act nice enough so i don't lose her somehow. i don't wanna be too ****y and tease her so much.

i'm not sure when to ask her for her number again or just somewhere to meet. perhaps it's too early? but then again, i can't just sit here and chat with her all night. how long am i suppose to chat with her before getting her number or to arrange a meeting place?
Why are you trying to help us with something that YOU need help on?
 

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"Can I get your number?" "Why?"

"Because I'm making a phone book....why do you think?"
 

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when she says why? just answer " just give it to me is going to be alright".... that does the trick for me at least when they put up some resistance...
 
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You asked for this girl's number too soon or else she is not interested! Did both of you share pics??
 
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