Give me strength my brothers

[AllDay85]

My top prospect is purposely trying to make me jealous tonight. I had to work overnight and she went to the g eazy concert with friends. She's been putting up Snapchats with this guy kissing up on him. Obviously purposely for me to see. I felt oneitis coming on and immediately got on here. I have plans with a hb7 Friday night so that helps, but i already have plans with the woman in question (hb8) Saturday night. She'll be staying at my place. I'm supposed to act like i don't give a **** right? (I also smashed a 35 year old milf tonight before work, yet still feel oneitis coming on). Give me strength my brothers.

 

[blind_one]

Why do you care ? She is just a plate playing games, act suave and unfazed. If she disrespects/flakes/acts up drop her to the curb. Its not oneitis. You feel that you need her more because she is in demand, well again, why would you care ? You are in demand as well, spin plates get more options. Let her enter your world.

 

[Desdinova]

If she disrespects/flakes/acts up drop her to the curb.

If you find yourself having one-itis for a wh0re, get rid of her. Your relationship with her is only downhill from here.

 

[AllDay85]

Why do you care ? She is just a plate playing games, act suave and unfazed. If she disrespects/flakes/acts up drop her to the curb. Its not oneitis. You feel that you need her more because she is in demand, well again, why would you care ? You are in demand as well, spin plates get more options. Let her enter your world.

Because I ran such tight game this time. I had her eating out of the palm of my hand and i was POSITIVE she was going to ask for monogamy. Maybe it's pride, but it's just hard to accept that she's acting like this. I feel like I lost. Many people had assumed we were dating because she was always posting pics of us. And now I look bad. I know some guys will say "dump her!" and others will tell me to keep spinning plates. But part of me wanted her to want me that bad.

 

[Floydispink01]

She's trying to suck you into her world of confrontation and jealousy. Many men in her past have fallen to this so she is used to it - It's all she knows. Quite simply - Don't play it. Say nothing. You are above this. You are a champ, not a chump.

Don't mention anything to her until Saturday. If she reaches out, flake on the date and tell her your off to a trip or something. Be vague. You don't want to be taken for granted.

If she is rude or disrespectful, play it cool. DO NOT MENTION THE SNAPCHATS.

If she reaches out and wants to see you then proceed where you left off. You now have hand and you'll feel better about yourself, which ironically is what she wants you to feel like anyway. Be the man like when you first met her.

Oh, and what others say. Explore your options with other plates.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Ugh, you suck. There is no honor in bagging women with children. You and club guy should hook up for a cry-in.

Is there a serious shortage of quality girls in America? Rhetorical question.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Ugh, you suck. There is no honor in bagging women with children. You and club guy should hook up for a cry-in.

Is there a serious shortage of quality girls in America? Rhetorical question.

"club guy"?

 

[LiveFreeX]

This homo

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/not-keen-on-my-girlfriend-going-to-clubs-bars.231095/

 

[AttackFormation]

Because I ran such tight game this time. I had her eating out of the palm of my hand and i was POSITIVE she was going to ask for monogamy.

lol... You know she has you by the balls when you say this sh!t after she does this. Don't you realise women are manipulative? this is a classic strategy they have. Prop up your ego and make you think you're the man. Men buy it all the time because we're too fvcking stupid to think clearly.

 

[Reykhel]

My top prospect is purposely trying to make me jealous tonight. I had to work overnight and she went to the g eazy concert with friends. She's been putting up Snapchats with this guy kissing up on him. Obviously purposely for me to see. I felt oneitis coming on and immediately got on here. I have plans with a hb7 Friday night so that helps, but i already have plans with the woman in question (hb8) Saturday night. She'll be staying at my place. I'm supposed to act like i don't give a **** right? (I also smashed a 35 year old milf tonight before work, yet still feel oneitis coming on). Give me strength my brothers.

You're spinning plates bro.........spinning plates (soft harem): "dating" multiple women at
once without commitment. This is open, non-exclusitivity......

This is the sexual strategy that your playing/gaming.........but now your having expectations from one of your plates......can you see what direction your expectations are going to push your energy?

If you're hoping she would ask you to become monogomous/ exclusive then
you appear to be highly outcome dependent....

If you are spinning plates.....you are the one who is saying I'm not available to be exclusive.....the only way that would or could change is if one of your plates moulds into your frame and begs you for an exclusive LTR......then you would graciously go and consider it and do whatever serves your best interests......

If that's not the sexual strategy you wish to be on, then you must consider what game your on...

 

[AllDay85]

You're spinning plates bro.........spinning paltes (soft harem): "dating" multiple women at
once without commitment. This is open, non-exclusitivity......

This is the sexual strategy that your playing/gaming.........but now your having expectations from one of your plates......can you see what direction your expectations are going to push your energy?

If you're hoping she would ask you to become monogomous/ exclusive then
you appear to be highly outcome dependent....

If you are spinning plates.....you are the one who is saying I'm not available to be exclusive.....the only way that would or could change is if one of your plates moulds into your frame and begs you for an exclusive LTR......then you would graciously go and consider it and do whatever serves your best interests......

If that's not the sexual strategy you wish to be on, then you must consider what game your on...

Correct. I'm outcome dependant. The outcome I'm searching for is the one you just described "she begs me to be in an LTR and enters my frame."

I found myself getting jealous which is unusual for me. Came here for insight. So thanks.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I hate it when chicks pull this kind of sh1t

Sadly when women do stuff like this its either because they’re crazy for you and need your attention badly or it’s because they have absolutely no respect for you

There is no middle ground and usually your gut will be able to tell you which one it is

If its because shes crazy for you then just ignore her it will just make her fall even deeper for you

If its just a lack of respect then you just got to walk away

women can sense weakness and they will ruthlessly exploit it if given half a chance

 

[fastlife]

Jealousy is prioritizing someone else's agency over your own. She has frame, because her actions dictate the nature of your interaction. You're letting one girl out of 4 billion determine your self-worth and undermine your ease of mind. Stop it and take responsibility for yourself--act in ways that are beneficial to you.

Plus, you're acting like the girl in this situation. But instead of 'Oh, well maybe if I give him sex and act extra nice and virtuous he'll offer me commitment,' you're coming at it like, 'I've been so alpha--she has to fall for me.' See how beta that mindset it?

 

[hudpes]

Not as tough as you thought you were? Get your foot off the gas, seems like you've got a date every day with someone else, and then when one of those girls you're spinning checks you, you begin losing sh*t? How fair is your game from their perspective? Take a deep breath, what do you really want? Spin plates, or get on with someone you really like

 

[logicallefty]

OP, I concur with what many others said, be unphased and go on like you never even saw it. Don't bring it up.

If she tries to bait you in and bring it up to you, like says something directly about it or tries to bait you to see the pictures, you could always use my standard reply when women try to make me jealous of another specific guy. Say "Oh yeeah, I saw those pics. That guy looks like he loves to party. What's his number I am always looking for like minded wing men to go sarge with". Of course, I've never actually had one connect me with the dude. But this attitude shows her that you are unphased about her actions, and that you may just go out sometime looking for other female prospects for yourself.

 

[Yewki]

Why are you checking the pictures she sends out on social media? She either contacts you directly one on one, or not at all. Following a girl on social media is like following a 4 year old child... what's the point? You like wasting your time with nonsense? Oh look, little Sally uploaded a new drawing she made in crayon

 

[Atom Smasher]

Get with quality women, reject the game players and vvhores. It works for me.

 

[Maximus Rex]

She's been putting up Snapchats with this guy kissing up on him. Obviously purposely for me to see.

Have you hit that ass yet? If not, then why are you on her Snapchat page?

I have plans with a hb7

Rex has news for you. 7's aren't hot babes. They're cute, but they aren't hot. The Hot Babe tag should be reserved for 8's and up. Though I can see an argument being made for 7.5's. 7's are only a half a point and point above a 6 with is average. These are example of 7's.

but i already have plans with the woman in question (hb8) Saturday night.

No pictures, it didn't happen.

 

[AllDay85]

Have you hit that ass yet? If not, then why are you on her Snapchat page?



Rex has news for you. 7's aren't hot babes. They're cute, but they aren't hot. The Hot Babe tag should be reserved for 8's and up. Though I can see an argument being made for 7.5's. 7's are only a half a point and point above a 6 with is average. These are example of 7's.

No pictures, it didn't happen.

The scale is relative, my brother. Although I partially agree with your assertion and have reevaluated my use. By the way, are you asking me for pics? Always happy to share. Send me a private message if you're interested in my interpretation of a HB8.

Oh, and yes, I've hit it multiple times.

 

[AllDay85]

It's lamentable that 2 people who like each other will gameplay, but I'm not convinced a guy should ever ask for monogamy.

I agree, which is partially the reason behind this post. I thought she was going to go for monogamy and then started playing games instead. I totally agree with your assertion that men should never ask for monogamy. I subscribe to anti-dumps machine when it comes to dating women. Either she asks, or it will never happen.