"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Give me 4 reasons why you deserve my phone number?

dopexile

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Latinoman said:
Fun is always a good thing. But don't kid yourself...you care about the outcome.

But here are the things that I noticed about you (you can b.s. a lot of people...including yourself...but you can't b.s. everybody in here):

1- You are insecure. Your first line in this thread was justifying to us why you were talking with an internet woman.

2- You still insecure. The above quote illustrates that.

3- Asking us to provide with ways of answering a damn email/IM/post also shows that you lack wit, that you are socially incompetent, and that you lack natural charm.

4- You will not have us there sitting by you in that date. It won't take her long to realize you are NOT the person she met via the Internet. That you are indeed a faker.

So...what are you going to do, other than getting pissed off at me? What are you going to do to improve yourself?
I'm going to just get mad at you and beat you up, that's what I'll do. :) I certainly have things that need improvement, there's no doubt. I plan to continue practicing my game... and make improvements in my life. Whenever opporitunites arise I've tried to force myself to take action, even when I make excuses in my head not to.

Anyway... I had a good chat with the chick last night... I tried to get her off after 15 mins but things were going really well and I cut her off at about 25 mins in. I failed to get anything setup but I had her dying laughing so much... so I don't think it should be hard to follow up. Definitely need to be more aggressive with the next girl around though. :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Latinoman

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dopexile said:
I'm going to just get mad at you and beat you up, that's what I'll do. :) I certainly have things that need improvement, there's no doubt. I plan to continue practicing my game... and make improvements in my life. Whenever opporitunites arise I've tried to force myself to take action, even when I make excuses in my head not to.

Anyway... I had a good chat with the chick last night... I tried to get her off after 15 mins but things were going really well and I cut her off at about 25 mins in. I failed to get anything setup but I had her dying laughing so much... so I don't think it should be hard to follow up. Definitely need to be more aggressive with the next girl around though. :)
Good reply...it shows you have a cool attitude toward critisism. This is a cool thing to have.

Good luck my friend!
 

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I like it. Good job bro
 
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