"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Give a good massage?

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Just wondering if any DJ's here with a talent for massaging could explain their technique a little, I am refering to just the back and neck. Also if any women would like to comment on what they like?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you Squeeze fresh Orange Juice by hand every morning(1 oragne=half cup) and make bread every once in a while it will strenghten your hands. If not that take up a musical instrument like sax or whatever.

Techniques I don't know about. There are tons of them out there. the real key is to let it flow. Practice is all I know. You can feel where the joints and muscles are tense and then just rool and loosen them up.

Go to a chiro or wherever and ask them... they'd know a lot more and be able to show you a lo more easily.
 

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Go and do a course in massage. One of those 6 month community course ones. Women get wet just knowing that you have studied massage.

I studied it as part of my course at University and I can tell you that I have gotten some excellent mileage out of it. This is one of those skills you have to really learn hands-on. Having said that, it is really hard to mess up a massage. People in general like being rubbed and/or touched.
 

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Originally posted by Capi Crimini
If you Squeeze fresh Orange Juice by hand every morning(1 oragne=half cup) and make bread every once in a while it will strenghten your hands. If not that take up a musical instrument like sax or whatever.
Nice! And for those non-OJ squeezers amongst us, indoor rock climbing will give you fanstastic forearms and fingers of steel. All while being very good fun, and giving you experience at a great date location too.

--> Beethoven.
 

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Ok! this is a great thread i think.

How i do this is asking if she would like a massage to start with. But i think it's best to firstly now her a little bit and already had some physical contact.

You can also act more Don Juan by saying she needs to undress.. doesn't have to be completely but at leat her back and loosen her bra-strap.

Make sure your hands are warm and use oil! oil is one of the keys @ massage!
you can rub your hands warm with the oil.

Slowly build up (ofcourse) don't begin kneeding her skin as though she enjoys hard SM or pain. (maybe later in the massage and watch her signals)

Massage as much as skin as possible and vary your moves.

What most women really like is that in the course of massaging her> put your hands under her hips and lift her hips a little bit up (without a special meaning (yet ;-) and then down again.
See how she reacts, i did this 1 day again with a girl and she really enjoyed because i did it several times and she also moved her hips up abit by herself and making sounds from her mouth.
So that's a good sign.

I ended up kissing her back and a little above her butt. That's a hotspot! especially if you're massaging a lion (starsign), lions love to be touched there.

ps: don't initiate sex, you just wanted to give her massage. She'll let you know if she wants to progress. :)

good luck!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by San
Make sure your hands are warm and use oil! oil is one of the keys @ massage!
you can rub your hands warm with the oil.
Thanks for the tips San! Is there any particular oil (before I use cooking oil, light some candles, and accidentally set fire to my girlfriend :D)?
 

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Lighter Fluid Should do.....


Actually there is a wide vairety of oils for massaging... You can find them at beuaty stores or in the mall.

Of course your not gonna pull out the massage oil if your just giving her a light body massage in public.... Unless that sorta stuff turns you on.;)
 
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