"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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defiancy

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since there are girls that you tend to see everyday in the school year

you can't "cold approach" her like you've met her for the first time. (Most of the DJ advice out there is focused on cold approaches)

I'm wondering how you can smoothly close that one out, especially on a girl that might be a semi- AW

So you make EC, approach ..then kino
but the next day you ignore her as to confuse her and make her wonder about you

when would it seem to be a good time to start another convo and number close her? If you have experience on this hand out some insights

I'm having trouble putting all these DJ ideas together smoothly
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Capitol39

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If you've seen her every day during the school year, why are you taking so long to get her number? The longer you wait, the more difficult it gets.

Don't think about it too much. You don't need to strategize. Follow your instincts.

Just strike up conversations with her every once in a while. Be ****y and funny. If she's responsive, say something like "I'm going to xxxxxx on Friday night. You want to come along?"

If she's not responsive, move on to sombody else.

It's simple, really. Good luck.
 

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Originally posted by defiancy
since there are girls that you tend to see everyday in the school year

you can't "cold approach" her like you've met her for the first time. (Most of the DJ advice out there is focused on cold approaches)

I'm wondering how you can smoothly close that one out, especially on a girl that might be a semi- AW

So you make EC, approach ..then kino
but the next day you ignore her as to confuse her and make her wonder about you

when would it seem to be a good time to start another convo and number close her? If you have experience on this hand out some insights

I'm having trouble putting all these DJ ideas together smoothly

forget cold approcahes and stuff. study hard.
 
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