"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Comeback kid

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I have no problem with talking to girls who i know I may never see again, but i am afraid to talk to the ones that i will see everyday for the rest of the year. Like the ones in my class, How would i do things differenetly talking to a girl i would probably see everyday.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Comeback kid said:
I have no problem with talking to girls who i know I may never see again, but i am afraid to talk to the ones that i will see everyday for the rest of the year. Like the ones in my class, How would i do things differenetly talking to a girl i would probably see everyday.
Same here, I would also like to know the answer to this. Yeah, yeah-go out and practice somewhere else-but school is where most of your social time is spent.
 

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Lol I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I feel the same way.

Anyway, I know it's overused, but ****y and funny is the way to go. I don't know exactly how to explain it, but try to talk about something common (class you're in or whatever) then eventually move the convo into a more sexual type of discussion (friends usually talk about school, not lovers ;)
 

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be subtle....like in clubs ur just straight up ie 'hey sexy' blah blah....school do more small talk here and there and gauge their interest level slowly but school almost done so who cares
 

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This is a good question. I have it too. Wouldn't be weird if just one day all of a sudden you start talking/flirting like you're best friends?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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