"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls with trust issues...

Paintballguy

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How exactly does everyone deal with girls that have some sort of trust issues caused by their ex? I've seem to run into several girls like this and its a real PITA. It seems like they get one bad apple and don't want to try another one. So in the end, people like me don't even get a chance.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skilla_Staz

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Don't bring it up. Just do your thing. Don't give her any reason to not trust you man. No biggie.
 

TruthHurts

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Have them chase after you instead of you chase after them..... in other words, focus on yourself and your life, and if they want they can follow...
 

MacDiddy

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what you do is your business. If she don't like it then she can move on.. if she says its her biz coz you two are in a relationship than, no point in arguing with her... just go right on and do your own thing...
 
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