Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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tony-montana

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that's pretty much every girl. everytime i hear about a girl that has guy friends i kinda lose it and keep myself distant from them. i guess i don't like seeing myself with a girl who has guy friends so i tend to back off... should i just accept the fact girls like to have guy friends or keep looking for a girl who is a friend to just ONE guy and that's her partner?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Raikojo17

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tony-montana said:
that's pretty much every girl. everytime i hear about a girl that has guy friends i kinda lose it and keep myself distant from them. i guess i don't like seeing myself with a girl who has guy friends so i tend to back off... should i just accept the fact girls like to have guy friends or keep looking for a girl who is a friend to just ONE guy and that's her partner?
dude you are totally paranoid. Guy friends dont mean sh1t. they are just that,friends. they aint gettin any closer to the pvssy. they have all been friendzoned. so stop worrying about them and just talk to the girls already.
 

tony-montana

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why do girls always need a guy friend though? i mean, i'm willing to have no girl FRIENDS and just stick to the one girl if she's my partner. don't need no friends. can't they do that ?
 

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^^^ you cant force them to not have any contact with boys. they do live with them and will always have boys with them.

why do they need a guy friend? because everyone needs friends, boy or girl.and i mean come on, who else are they gonna complain about there bf's and guy problems with? lol

you may feel that you dont need girl "friends", but how shallow would life be if you only talked to guys? it wouldnt be fun.

Everyone needs friends from the opposite sex. i once knew a girl who only had girl friends. biggest b1tch i've ever met. so in a way, guy friends help.

and like i said, guy friends dont mean sh1t. you can game the girl while they friend her. they do tend to c0ckblock from time to time if they like the girl, but they arent a threat at all. they aint gettin any closer to the pvssy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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