Girls Who Text Alot

[jglide123]

I met this chick about three weeks back, and we've been texting ever since off and on. I've tried to steer the text messages into a more sexual direction, but she plays coy. She's obviously interested, seeing that she always texts me back, even deep into the a.m. Our schedules keep conflicting, so we haven't meet up yet since our original meeting.

I'm not quite sure what to make of this situation. You guys have any suggestions or advice?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I met this chick about three weeks back, and we've been texting ever since off and on. I've tried to steer the text messages into a more sexual direction, but she plays coy. She's obviously interested, seeing that she always texts me back, even deep into the a.m. Our schedules keep conflicting, so we haven't meet up yet since our original meeting.

I'm not quite sure what to make of this situation. You guys have any suggestions or advice?

Tell her to send you a pic for your phones 'picture caller id'. I've pulled that with chicks I was sexting with and they almost always send a n00d pic.

Make plans to meet up with this chick and stop the texting or continue virtual fvcking.

 

[alxrose04]

It's no big deal that she won't go sexual with you during the conversation. Some girls are just shy like that. (Great thing is that, those are the girls have have a sexual BEAST inside of them but anyways...) Try to be creative and see if you guys can meet up. Next step I could think of would be to video chat. If anything, that should bring you guys closer.

 

[Skalioppe]

Women like attention and will fvck you over just as long as you are massaging their ego. That's precisely why texting should always be for a goal, not a bulls1t cycle of lame girlie chit chat.

Goals can include :
1. Sorting out a date
2. A pic (start by asking for a few normal pics, tell her she looks amazing and within a short cyle you can often lever something sexier out of them by milking their ego)
3. A compliance test (get them to do something for you)
4. Planting the seed for sexual liaisons.

The way to do it to use the "Pavlov" reward system and ingrain compliance in them. You're nice to them and in the process ask them for something (a goal), if they deliver they get rewarded with praise or some sh1t for their ego even just a reply, if not you go silent and ignore them for a while - they'll soon text you again all confused and won't want to get ignored. Their interest in you increases via this feedback system and in the process you get the goals you want.

Goals are great for escalation. Everytime they agree to something you can up the ante next time. Easy as fvck - but you have to be man enough to be prepared to drop any flaky b1tch who doesn't play by the rules.

 

[jglide123]

Well, I'm supposed to go out to a club with her tonight, so we'll see....

Weird thing is, I actually LIKE texting and flirting with her through text. I know it's kinda breaking the rules of attraction to a degree, but it's sensual to me for some reason....

 

[Skalioppe]

Weird thing is, I actually LIKE texting and flirting with her through text. I know it's kinda breaking the rules of attraction to a degree, but it's sensual to me for some reason....

It's called the honey trap. Of course you like it, she wants you to, so you're available like a panting puppy whenever she wants an ego hit - whilst she's on the hunt for Alpha c0ck elsewhere. Sit....there's a good boy!

Yes it breaks the rules of attraction, because your approach rarely works in the long run, many a fool has tried to make it work because they "LIKE texting and flirting", they are getting little treats (texts) which appear on the face of it as indicators of interest, they aren't they're the proverbial dangling carrot. It's not Alpha, Beta or even Gamma behaviour and women are evolutionarily programmed to sh1t on pure Omega pussies who exhibit this sort of sh1t, using them as their obsequious b1tches until Mr Alpha charms her panties off and is fvcking her brains out . When that happens you'll be dropped like sh1tty stick or be put in the Plan B ego boost drawer.

If you want the prize you have to be the root of desire, you have to learn that desire comes from certain traits like mystery, confidence, masculinity, and especially from being aloof and slightly out of reach - keeping them guessing. Texts should always have an intent and goal in mind.

You need to grow some bollocks and play the game or you will be in for a tearful time.

 

[Zerro]

My girl and I texted a lot before we started dating and still do now between dates. She was pretty coy as well before the first date, after that then it didn't take long for her to get blatantly sexual.

Of course there have also been chicks who did this but I never got anything out of them. The point is that not every chick who texts a lot is just attention whoring, these easiest way to tell is to look at how many times she starts the convo vs you starting it.

 

[jglide123]

My girl and I texted a lot before we started dating and still do now between dates. She was pretty coy as well before the first date, after that then it didn't take long for her to get blatantly sexual.

Of course there have also been chicks who did this but I never got anything out of them. The point is that not every chick who texts a lot is just attention whoring, these easiest way to tell is to look at how many times she starts the convo vs you starting it.

Good points.

I would always start the texting conversations, but she would always respond. I ended up just deleting this chicks phone number after she flaked on me this past Thursday.

I agree that not all girls who text a lot are attention *****s, like some of the other posters stated. Some guys would have you believe it's part of some nefarious female strategy to take away the guys power, or ensnare him in some convoluted power game. I think much of it has to do with age; younger girls love to have text conversations, as opposed to real ones. It's what's trendy. Also, chicks between 18 and 25 didn't grow up in an age where you HAD to have crisp conversation skills. But in the age of the iPhone, you can damn near carry on an entire relationship through text messaging! That's one of the downfalls of technology....

In the future, though, I will refrain from getting into long texting "conversations" with chicks....