"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls that lie..... a lot!

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Whats with these girls that just feel the need to lie all the time..its soooo
retarded. I was with this girl that lied to make me feel good and then lied when she wasn't interested anymore. For example, when we first hooked up I brought a bottle of wine over to her house and she said "oh, this is my favorite brand!" HA HA, I knew for a FACT that she never even heard or seen this particular brand let alone tasted it..LOL. Then when things went lame, I would text her and hours later she would text back saying she just got the message.. My phone lets me know when somebody read my message because we both have the same service provider.. And there are many many more examples. I never called her out on any of her many many lies because I knew there was never any potential LTR but sh!t man it just makes me laugh. Honestly it never pissed me off but its funny how obvious it was. Are these types just too into themselves and their own agendas? Thats what it seems like to me..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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On the wine issue - maybe she wanted to please you - on the phone issue - again she didn't want to disappoint you. Ask for a second date and see her response.
 
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