"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls that cry all the time

00Kevin

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How do you guys deal with hot girls that cry all the time?

I guess they are better then the ones that turn into a b-itch
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Be a man about it....be sensitive enough to care but keep your composure like a man.
 

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this is all nice and everything.

but.... when it drives you NUTS - HOLY FU-CKEN SH-IT
 

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i drink their tears. my sexual power thrives on the taste of their pain.

joking

i think it depends on the situation man lol... like if her dog dies that's one thing, if she's crying because you won't do something with her that's another. she's likely just doing it to make you feel bad and go with her.

there are tons of diff scenarios.

some people are just really emotional

i always try not to get too AFC with "comforting" and blah blah blah but sometimes it's just hard to tell whether it's real or a show. but at the same time u don't wanna say "oh pft take it like a man" incase she is really hurt or whatever

i think it just depends on the situation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My biggest weakness with women is when they cry, especially if its due to tragedy (ie. their entire family got massacred by a serial killer).

Once I felt so bad when this girl's best friend jumped off a building, I even refrained from making a joke about her friend's death.
 

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stick with her for now. it'll probably pass. my gf right now, for the first month or so was in a really emotionally unstable state. long story short, her family's mormon (i'm not) and she was too, but she had problems with a lot of the beliefs. she was afraid to actually question things though because they teach you not to, and at first there came some theological differences between us that caused a lot of strain. that combined with the way that your average-joe-mormon raises a child stressed her out a lot so she cried every few nights we were together. i stuck with her, REASSURED her (important) with actual, thought out, logical reasons why things would work out for her.

now, you can see how much happier she is and how things have eased up with her parents (btw, she got the hang of questioning things and is no longer a part of the religion)
 

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It's called emotional blackmail. Women will use tears to get attention and sway the hearts of strong men. Don't give her overt sympathy, but be a pillar of stability. Just because a woman is crying, doesn't mean you have to crumble.

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
It's called emotional blackmail. Women will use tears to get attention and sway the hearts of strong men. Don't give her overt sympathy, but be a pillar of stability. Just because a woman is crying, doesn't mean you have to crumble.

-Damian
This is good ****. Something I should have known long ago. Did you think that up? I am going to quote you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Damian
be a pillar of stability. Just because a woman is crying, doesn't mean you have to crumble.

This is true.

I only want to ad that when a girl cries all the time it makes me think that she is an AW.

I will say that I would much rather be with a girl that cries all the time then a girl that b-itches or acts like a feminist robot.


The danger with girls that cry is that you can get cought up in their trap.
 

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I recently was thanked by a girl for making her cry!

This girl was rather depressed so I told her off and told her that she wasn't making any sense. At the time she acused me of being insensitive and called me an *******.

A week later she thanked me and said that he is happy and that I helped her get out of her depression.

Don't be a p-ussy when dealing with girls that are depressed.


The problem is that now I'm with a girl that cries about every little romantic thing. oh well she is only 20 :)

I love them young now.
 
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