"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girls that are into u but plays everything cooler than u are

carlitos

Don Juan
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how do u deal with girls that u know like u but are just playing everything cool? i tried waiting and pull back but then they pull back even more..but the vibe never dies and it's always on..but still they're patient as hell and u do have to put some effort in

so whats a way to impact them and get them to love u? it's like accelerating the process..another idea to add to this is that alpha males are go getters..they dont wait for the girl to like them or wait for time to tell..if they see that something is really worth it they do whatever to make sure they get it..

any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Enryu

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hmm let me get this straight
u know a women whos all into you
you pull back ( as in? )
and then they do the same?
well normally a women never ever makes the first step its always up to yours truly.

go for it
 
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