"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls talking about u.

Da_Shogun

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Here's the problem. Well, not really a problem but here goes.
There's this girl i know but never really talk to. Well not for more than a couple of seconds. She's kind of hot. Let's call her 'Girl A'.
So I dicided i would just go over and talk to her just to improve on my conversational skills and to get more comfortable being around girls. While talking to her, i got her email address and then here comes some of her friends who were talking just across the street from us. In this group of girls was 'Girl B', Girl A's best friend i think. Girl B is very hot and she knows it. All the while we were talking, i saw her watching us, off and on from across the street before she came over along all the other girls. They just came over for no appearant reason but, maybe to disturb us or something because they weren't talking to Girl A. I come to that conclusion becuase i was told before that Girl B likes me. Anyway Girl A wasn't to pleased. I could see it on her face. She wanted to keep talking to me without her friends around.

Fast forword to yesturday when we were coming from school with a group of friends: I was talking to Girl B and she asked me questions like, "why did i do this and why didn't i do that" concerning things i never told her, but i told Girl A (her friend). Anyway i never answered her questions directly . All i said was "becuase of circumstances beyond my control." She begged and begged but i never told, but instead i asked her if Girl A told her but she denied. She said she has her sources but i seriously think that it's Girl A. This means that she (Girl B) has been talking about me. Then we reached her house. She said bye to all of us then went. I wanted to ask her from her email address at this point but i didn't have the guts to, :mad: so she left and i just kept walking with the rest. I was going to one of my friends house who wasn't home at the moment so i headed home.

On the way home i had to pass her house on the way. I was mad at myself for not getting her email address, so i said to myself "suck it up and go get that email address". I made a brave move (brave for me) and went to her house just to get the email address. I had bad feelings about doing this but i guess i had nothing to loose. It was my only choice left because i hardly ever get to see her, i mean hardly. Anyway i asked her only email address and she offered her email address, phone number and even home address lol. I left her house feeling like a man, no regrets.

So my question is how do you think i could use the sharing of information between her and Girl A about me to my advantage. Give any other tips and opinions that u find necessary. Peace! Thanx in advanced. Oh and Girl B is my target by the way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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darthsidious

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GOOD... I sense great anger in your message...

I didn't want to read your stupid message but I get the tone of it.. you should continue doing what you will be doing and then you will become what you wanted to become.

You are the master, CONTROL THEM!
 

Jake-inator

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Huh Girl A .. Girl B.. i'm confused.

Sounds like you have a jelousy situation going on. Just chill and let them fight over you. There's no use trying to figure out their crazy mind games you'll just get drawn into them.

BTW: Girl A sounds like a LTR.. while girl B is a wh0re.

Girl B only wants you because Girl A actually likes you. She is a wh0re and a homewrecker and enjoys the thrill. She has no real feelings for you.

Girl A knows girl B is a wh0re... hence the displeased look on her face when girl B showed up.

Ok my head hurts now... why do you want girl B again?!?
I hope you're not looking for a long term relationship.
 

christz

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i hate this girl "A" crap and girl "B"

either say "girl i know" or give us a damn name i mean c'mon who is a "samantha" or whatever the chicks name to us? we'll never see her.

I feel like i'm in a damn math class trying to figure out some complex mathimatical equasion

"if girls A's fist is traveling at a velocity of 2 inches per second towards girl B's face who is standing 5 inches away from girl A at what time and speed will Girl A's fist hit Girl B's face"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Da_Shogun

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I had a feeling that all that girl A , Girl B stuff would cause confusion, but i thought it was best so...
Anyway for understanding sake:
Girl A = Cindy
Girl B = Samantha
I don't want a LTR with any of them. I knew Samantha liked me long before I knew Cindy wanted me. And by the way 'Darthsidious' there's no danger in my message. In fact i'm enjoying this. I disagree with Jake-inator though. Some guy told me that Samantha has heavy feelings for me, a lot. That was late last year. I didn't make any moves though. I was to scared to approach. I am a rAFC by the way. I am now getting over my fear of girls.
 
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