are you fvking joking?
i have ALREADY ESTABLISHED my position with her BEFORE she...stress SHE blows ME. i have done it without sex.
what you're saying is that if a dude loves a bj and she swallows that she's automatically in control. period? absolutely obsurd. if you believe that, you have a long way to go my friend, a long way.
a chick blowing a man is a submissive gesture on her part. do you know how many chicks LOVE to be submissive and worship a c@ck?
how many Dominant's make their submissives worship his c@ck, and treat her as his personal play toy? all of them. and by your theory submissive is in control of dominant. i think not. how many dominatrix's worship their submissive slave boy's c@ck? none of them. they give it to HER, they please her. but by your theory, slave boy is in control of Mistress. i think not.
look at that scene. as twisted as that scene is, that is the 100% pure, clean, dominant/submissive dynamic, and all of the psychology behind it. there is your answer. not from me, but from that scene itself. you can't argue with it.