"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls on the cell phone

WrEcKLeSS2000

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I've noticed at my college campus that girls who are walking by themselves are ALWAYS talking on their cell phone...I think this has to deal with their own insecurities that they can't just be by themselves and they need attention...

It's also annoying because it makes approaching a little bit harder since they are already on the phone...

What do you guys think...Is it just their insecurities?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did you ever think that somebody called THEM? When somebody calls you on your cell phone, what do you do? Um, you answer and begin conversing with the other party. And, if you are interested in speaking with somebody, most likely you'll continue to do so. Insecurties? Attention?
Unfortunately, we don't know.
 

WrEcKLeSS2000

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You misunderstood what I was saying man, I see many girls who are by themselves calling other people all the time....Like they can't be by themselves without getting any attention.
 

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That means they love attention. As you said, they can't be theirselves without attention.

They're probably *****s, just like all byatches, so.. you do the math.



Although. With these kind of women, and women with other.. thingies. I meet them in a state that doesn't reflect that huge personality flaw they have. And it happens that I never get to see that flaw.

And then I meet people who know these women I Next without even knowing them, and are in the same situation than me, although sometimes they do know about their flaw, and don't give a ****, for several reasons.

But, if you get to know that woman with that flaw, she will repeat that behaviour, with you. On my experience at least.

What's my point? They're still probably great human beings, but when they display such behaviour, well, meet them some other time, or never, but not at that moment.
 

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cell phone overuse...

can suck my c0ck!

I hate cell phones because most use them to just talk on it. Most people don't know how to actually converse in real life. It is actually sad and pathetic.

comic_relief
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The need for social interaction and support is much greater in females than that of males. That's why they always are talking to their friends either in person or over a phone.
 

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Originally posted by Dueyunit
word man chicks anser their phones wen theyr cald wuldnt u lol
Lest playe da game, howe many werds kan we spel wrong in won sentence. :)
 

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Maybe I look like I'm going to bother them, but I've noticed quiet a few girls pull their phones out when they see me tryin to make eye contact with them. One time I was walking towards one and she pulled out her phone, pretended to dial, then heard it close when she was behind me.

Don't know whether to be happy that she's letting me know that she's a bytch that don't like meeting new people, or sad that I don't look like an interesting person to talk to.
 

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HI.
Girls always talk in the phones to boost their image.
they show them selves that they are busy and intelligent.

You can make a girl go crazy when you see her talking in phone like, WHile you are walking in front of her catch her eye for a second and then break the eye-contact immediately , you should behave like you have see **** on her face.

Try it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by victor22
HI.
Girls always talk in the phones to boost their image.
they show them selves that they are busy and intelligent.

You can make a girl go crazy when you see her talking in phone like, WHile you are walking in front of her catch her eye for a second and then break the eye-contact immediately , you should behave like you have see **** on her face.

Try it
That's funny. Let me try that! :D
 

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yea this has happened to me a few times where a girl would just pull out her phone knowing that i was going to go talk to them. they also do this with their mp3 players.
 
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