"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Die Hard said:
I never said I was.. I just want to keep fvcking her and at the same time make sure she's not seeing other guys.

It's a fundamental concept which will return with all the girls I meet, it's not about this specific girl. If I meet a new chick and have sex with her, I cannot accept the idea of her going with other guys, it disgusts me, even if I only had one date with her and ****ed her just one time. If I'm with her for a second time and would discover that she had sex with another dude in the meanwhile, I would probably not be interested anymore.
It's not about me pursuing an LTR.. It's about her not seeing other guys...

Just because I want her to fvck only ME doesn't mean I want an LTR with her or be serious with her or have an emotional bond with her etc.

So I'm wondering how to facilitate this with girls. Actually, I'm wondering if it's possible at all, without lying anyway.. But since no one here presented a method, I conclude that it's not possible.. Which leaves two options:

1. Stop caring whether a girl sees other guys
2. Only pursue serious relationships with girls
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If you don't want a relationship with her or be serious with her or have an emotional bond with her then why the hell should she f**k only you? Really? If you aren't offering any incentives for her to be exclusive with you, then don't be surprised when she isn't. Funny thing about humans in general and women in particular, they don't usually like to make relationship commitments to people who they know are offering nothing of real value in return, and honestly, for many women who enjoy casual sex, it's not something that's of value to them, it's just tingly fun that they can get from guys like shooting fish in a bucket.

You will have a hard time finding what you are looking for so pick one of the two options you listed.

Actually no, I don't sense you are ready for a serious relationship, pick the first option and enjoy until you get bored with that, if ever, then pick number two.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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