"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girls in Vancouver-its all what u have or who ya now

joe45

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Do any of u guys think that gals these days and also people as a whole these days are measuring or do measure an indivudal based on --what he has or who he is, meaning waht car you drive or do you even have a car, who you are-meaning like what klind of work you do, and also were you went to school-be it Community college would be not as good compared to lets say one went to a Univeristy-as in vancouver it be UBC.

Anyone here from or lived in Vancouver and are people really like this especuially the asian girls-its all about what you have and who you are. its like all about status and keeping up with the trends. Look at all the asian gals wearing brands like tna, lulu lemon, -come on would those asian gals CBCs date a fellow asian guy if he was just working at a low paying job-don;t think so. Most of the time you see hot CBC girls those that wear the tna and lulu are with asian guys in their pumped up new Acura, Honda Prelude.....you never gonna see a hot CBC with a asian guy in a cheap Buick . Even with some asian guys to be accepted into their group you have to wear trendy clothes-cool fashion like North face puffy jackets, dkny watches, thjeir spiky gangster look.

Seems like everything these days are about what you wear, who you are, and what you have.

Been on a couple of dates and i met these gals online-okcupid, and myspace, all asian but one white girl who kinda of wacked. Lot of these girls jsut by talking to them, they're askin you what you do, the school u went to, and u can tell by looking at their face -that they are qualifying you for whaat you have and who you are-before you even get a second date....etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude, don't cry about that, don't you qualify a girl based on whether she can make your penis hard or not? What do you want girls to qualify you based on.
Getting girls is based on 2 things:
1) Creating sexual tension between the 2 of you
2) Creating a fun vibe between the 2 of you.

Worrying about these women judging you is not going to do anything to help you with either.
 

Le Parisien

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joe45:

Please... By this time, we all know that you are a serious case of stereotypical lowlife nerdy Asian loser without a clue about anything...:kick: .

Stop posting whiny threads, it doesn't do you any good, it doesn't do any good to this forum, it doesn't do any good to anybody.

If you don't have the guts and the determination to change yourself, you can spend all you time whining till the time you die, nothing will change.

Get your sh*t together! And come back here when you have "real" questions and need guidance. Now stop the whining spams!!!:nono:
 

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Seems like you blaming your problems on society. Stop taking the victim role and take action. You can be a leader or a follower - its up to you.
 

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There are girls like that everywhere, in my personal experience Vancouver chicks are great. I know the type of girls you're talking about and if you took your head out of your a$$ for a second you would see that there are plenty of other types of women in the city.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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