"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mazeman11

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When you make arrangements with a girl then she calls back to arrange something different at a different time. Would you go?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Um, don't go asking everybody different opinions on the same subject at the same time without putting any effort into it...

Smarten up dude, they're going to keep changing plans if you put no effort or practice into becoming a DJ.

Right now, I can so gfo read the bible.

Doesn't matter at all if they flake on you, just go learn what to do next time.

WAIT!!! Don't post in two forums at the same time, learn to read the freaking rules, they are there for a reason, not just for you to learn to abuse.

Now the answer...

No, I would ask her why, and tell her to explain it. Than I'd call her on any bullsh!t I smell, and tell her to suck an egg if that's the way she wants to be.

If it was legit, I'd tell her I was willing to do blah blah blah on the first day, than tell her something she's got to do for me if I agree to go at a different time.

Than I'd tell her some BS about how I am busy at that time I've got plans. Whgen she calls me on them, ask her why she didn't tell me in the first place...

Man, your question is just so uncaring and unaware that it is funny...

Thanks for wasting my time you lazy bag of bones.
 
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Sorry for wasting your time and thank you for replying. Me and the chica never met before. Only spoke on the phone a few times. She would rather see me tonight while she's out with her friends rather than tomorrow's date. I'm guessing she might be trying to be cautious since we never met before. Or I might be just a stupid fool.
 
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