"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girls and their damn emotions

dannowillbookem

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well that immigration bill hr4437 (all illegal immigrants are felons up for jail time etc) is being protested huge around here...bunch of schools had walkouts and mine was gonna have one today but we (i'm not hispanic but i joined the protest for the hell of it) had a meeting in the audiotorium with principal shaffer and talked it over for an hour.

anyways, a hot latin girl who likes the fucck...liz...i walked with her to the audiotorium and she started crying cause she wanted to walkout but didnt want trouble and felt like she was deserting her race etc...and all i could do was rub her back and walk with her which she almost ignored. i did alright (she saved me a seat and pushed people aside to get me there) but

what do you guys do when a chicks crying? i wouldve hugged her and held her but we were walking...plus its a tricky line with afcism
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you did fine and she probally thinks you have a very sweet side for being there for her.

teenage girls have so many emotional issues or drama instances going on in their heads that it makes their heads swirl at times. i think you can compare it to how teenage boys have sex thoughts so often.
for instance: while boys are picturing a chick half nekkid, the chick is wondering he thinks of her and how he probally doesnt even notice her.

at least this girl had a real reason for getting upset, she cares about her own people and thats alot if you ask me.
 

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Dude, you're telling me she's Mexican and is an emotional wreck?

Stick your finger in her butt.
 

dannowillbookem

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itishe said:
Dude, you're telling me she's Mexican and is an emotional wreck?

Stick your finger in her butt.
no shes cuban.

and i have no fuccking idea what fingering her ass will do for me.
 
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