"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls aint so hot once youve fvcked em

Mr.Fantastic

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Is it just me, or do girls become less attractive once you have had sex with them? Let me explain...

Almost all the girls I have been with (and there havn't been that many so perhaps I shouldnt be so picky!) seem to me to be less attractive once ive boned them. I think it is because once i have had them i am no longer the desperate chump i was prior to sex. I start to notice that they are perhaps more hairy than i thought, i notice that their kisses are not so great, that they give crappy head!

I made this observation to a friend of mine and he had noticed the same thing, he said it was due to there being no more challenge, and you want to seek out something better. This could be true...

If this is true, then I think I may be guilty of what we say women are guilty of: once you get something (i.e a 7) you now want and 8 etc....

Just something to think about...this is one of the biggest reasons why nobody can decide on a universal number system for womens looks, A:because of different tastes, but perhaps more importantly, B: different levels of frustration= different levels of being in awe of women.

The man that gets regular sex sees the ugly's for what they are, while the frustrated man must bone them first...the chumps stay with the ugly's.

.......by ugly, i dont mean pig looking, i just mean 'homely'...you know, not bad, but you want a knockout gorgeous type.

Anyway...something to think about!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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azanon

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Not in all cases. If they're really great in bed, or look more incredible than you imagined when you finally see them naked, then you could end up desiring them even more or excessively so. This phenemenon is so common "they" actually coined a term for it; being pu**y whipped.
 

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This is the hunters mentality in a nutshell. I've gamed really hot girls for ONS several times. After you've crossed that line, you aren't so interested because what else is there for you to do with them? Unless it's a girl you've got an actual deep emotional connection with, after you've had sex with a girl you probobly feel superior to the moment and to the girl. You've created a good story for yourself but are more interested in getting back to your daily life and the next conquest as it goes. This is the mans mentality of mating "Widely" where you want other girls to have sex with after you've mated with one. Some one else on here brought it up, by genetics, we aren't ment to be a monogomus species and unless you reach a higher understanding through our socilization, you'll trivialize having sex and want to see what else is out there for you.
 

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A few factors come into play...
The chase drives us, to me it is one of th best things in life.
We want what we can't have...
If she was easy to get in bed, then you'll value the sex less and not want it again. We want to continue to be challenged...
And once we "bone" them, our subconcious says...
"Seed implanted, who is next?" So primal eh?
After a few weeks you'll want to bone them again. Trust me :)
 

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I believe it's to do with hormones, when you havent had sex for awhile and your feeling abit edgy because of it your testosterone is at a higher level so your find anything attractive lol once you've had sex with them your no longer bothered whether you see them again or not, once you get another shot of testosterone and you start feeling horny again you will want them again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It sounds like: "You want what you cant have" "But once you have it you dont want it anymore"

To be honest.
 

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I thought along the same lines but when I did it for the first time, even though it didn't go amazingly, I felt so confident afterwards. All I could think was how many other ladies I knew that I wanted to give it to right then!
 

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I agree to this to a certain degree. I got with about an 8 awhile back and I thought she was hot, but her pvssy was REALLY REALLY loose and she gave head half ass. Not so great afterall.
 

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PRMoon said:
.....you want other girls to have sex with after you've mated with one. Some one else on here brought it up, by genetics, we aren't ment to be a monogomus species and unless you reach a higher understanding through our socilization, you'll trivialize having sex and want to see what else is out there for you.
My fav post of the day, very true
 
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