"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Her friends' opinions will make or break you." I heard something to that effect in the movie 'Hitch'; and I think there's some truth to it.

In the initial stages of dating, how important is it that your girlfriend's friends like you?

I ask because when previous GF's introduced me to their female friends, I noticed that if I wasn't liked, then that relationship was over within weeks. However, if most liked me, I stuck around for a bit longer.

So, especially for younger girlfriends (i.e. late teens early twenties), how much influence do you think their friends have over their thoughts and actions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I try and avoid hanging out with her friends until I've got 4-5 dates and she's locked down, after that happens it doesn't matter what her friends think.
 
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Not all but most women will choose their friends over their husbands,boyfriends,even their own children?They also accuse you of spending all your time with your friends while they themselves spend infinite amounts of time with their friends?Does it matter if they like you ?Hell yes it does!!! They run just about everything through their friends first regardless of what they tell you too.The friends know alot more than you will ever know from her cheaten on you to her wanting a divorce you are always the last to know:kick: !! You need the friends husbands and boyfriends to accept- like you too cause if you go out as couples you dont want to be stuck with people you dont like or get along with do you?Sad but true....... She needs to get along with my friends and family too if she going to be in my life a well .You aint got to love them just tollarate em:whistle:
 
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I will disagree with the importance of this. While her friends will need to bless off on your status and physical appearance, if you are an attractive dude with a high status level and confidence she is going to wait until you are exclusive to introduce you. She doesn't want you to start gaming her friends
 
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SleepyRangerMedic82D said:
I will disagree with the importance of this. While her friends will need to bless off on your status and physical appearance, if you are an attractive dude with a high status level and confidence she is going to wait until you are exclusive to introduce you. She doesn't want you to start gaming her friends
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No woman wants you to game their friends.Whats that got to do with her friends likeing him?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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