"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girlfriend wont give head

werdmaster

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So ive been going out with this girl for like two weeks. And she totally refuses to let me finger her or give me head. We only kiss and she grinds on me. Also, after I try to get her to do other stuff with me, she won't kiss me after that.

Its pissing me the hell off, that she wont make with the head. I was thinking that I started giving her way too much attention cuz i figured "what the hell, were going out."

I immediately regret that decision. I think I might have to take that attention away again, and for a lack of words "Re-mack" her.

What do you guys think of my plan?
Any other suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it's only been two weeks. how old are you again? some girls are more open than others to sex, but every girl wants it in time. dump her if you don't feel like waiting, but realize that you've only been going out for a little while..
 
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I think you might be a lucky guy that found a girl who isn't a slvt. I say take it slow or dump her and let me have her.

Be patient. You want a quickie? Dump her and find a slvt.
 

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Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
stop giving advice if you have no idea what you're talking about.

it's only been two weeks. how old are you again? some girls are more open than others to sex, but every girl wants it in time. dump her if you don't feel like waiting, but realize that you've only been going out for a little while..
sorry dude but i have to agree with A&F

after two weeks of dating, i'm not surprised she hasn't wanted anything like that yet. im realitively good at getting what i want from girls, but theres still been a couple that i didn't shag for at least a month after we started dating.

one girl in particular wouldn't let me touch her below the waist until we'd been dating for almost a month and a half. i was beginning to lose hope when one night she just went crazy on me like some jungle girl. turns out she was a major sex fiend, but doesn't like moving to fast with new guys.

so give her some time, and build up the makeout sessions. some girls also want to be led, which alot of guys either a) don't realize or b) don't know how to be in control. just take command, make out with her heavily. be forceful, but not violent. then, she looks at it as something that is going to happen because YOUR making it happen, not because she's a slut.

if she's just not ready though, don't force her
 

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you could break up with her and it could all explode in your face. cause she could tell everyone the reaso you two broke up is cause you wanted to force stuff. my opinoin just letting you see if from her perspective.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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