"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girlfriend thinks/thought i liked another girl..help needed

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shark

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She asked me if i liked this other girl who were both friendly with. I don't and i really do only like my girlfriend..i told her that i didnt like the girl and she was the one i liked but idk if she really believed me based on her somewhat sarcastic responce.

Do i get her to believe me and bring it up? Or do i leave it alone? OR..do i somehow use this towards my advantage in the relationship?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Leave it. Bringing it up will only result in a pissy fight.
 
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show her you like her.

don't tell her.

she's being immature. don't buy into it.
 
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It's quite natural to fancy other girls when you are in a relationship. Whats important is that you don't act on it.

Explain and get her to accept this fact if it comes up, if not, leave it alone.

The phrase "bunny boiler" comes to mind with your girlfriend here - shes getting clingy and insecure. You have been warned...
 
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I would imply that I've been seeing this other girl in a more intimate way. I would say this in a playful way so she wouldn't know if I was serious or not. She would then get jealous and want you even more. I do this all the time to my gf. It works more me. Let me know if it works for you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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