girlfriend tells me "don't let me get hurt"

[foomee]

so we've been seeing each other for about a month, but it wasn't until a week ago things stepped up to the next level. now we're, i guess, a couple. aka having sex and talking and what not. but i'm her third boyfriend ever, only the second guy to have sex with her, and she's only 20 while i'm 23.
she's a good girl. i'm the kind of guy that likes to talk to other girls and right now i'm really interested in some others, much more than i am with her, but we're having sex and basically that's all i need right now.
i feel it was a bad idea to do it in the first place, we're not that compatible but what can i say, before i met her i hadn't had sex for 3 weeks, so i settled for whatever i could get. i want her to end things, but i want to end things on a good note. she obviously likes me more than i like her, and if i broke up with her i'd break her heart, and at my university, word spreads quickly, and i already have a player reputation. i don't want more of it.

so any suggestions? what can i do to make things easier for her and not "hurt her" and break her heart.

 

[loveshogun]

at my university, word spreads quickly, and i already have a player reputation. i don't want more of it.

so any suggestions? what can i do to make things easier for her and not "hurt her" and break her heart.

Boo hoo. Do what you have to do. It's necessary - it's not a question.

You said yourself that you're not compatible, and it was your weakness that led to you sleeping with her anyway. You're not gonna get what you want by constantly running from your problems.

End the relationship now, so that it doesn't become REAL heartbreak 3 years later.

"Break her heart"... man, you severely underestimate a woman's ability to move on.

We're here for you, but prepare to do what you have to do.

 

[terran2k]

better let her know now, longer you wait, the harder you gunna make it on yourself.

 

[Biggie]

Yeah if you're interested in other girls, break it off. Tell her you're sorry you're not looking for anything serious, and you want to end it because you don't want to hurt her in the future. Just be honest with her.

 

[Falcon25]

Keep it on the side, bang other girls till she finds out. We all learn about life the hard way, why shouldn't she? Break her heart, they seem to have no trouble breaking ours. You think they get on forums and ask questions like this when they are ready to fuvk with us? Women have NO MERCY when it comes to breaking a man's heart. It's a war out there, I suggest you put your vagina away. Being a player is a good thing. You got nothing to prove to anyone until you meet your future wife. Stop worrying about other peoples hearts. You know what it means to be a bad boy? Being opposite of your feelings right now. Worry about YOUR heart. No one else (outside of family). You will get puvsy for life on that debit card of yours if you listen to me. Good luck, and God's speed.

 

[sodbuster]

just get super clingy,jealous, hang around her all the time. When she asks for some space-whine about it. etc. Go all AFC on her. she'll run for the hills after a couple weeks[which you should use to scout other women]

 

[Thundernuts]

Look man, for starters if you are seriously worried about womens feelings then why did u have sex with her in the first place...ooo three weeks, god damn man we all know what your weakness is.

Im not saying be cruel, just tell her that you know she is growing really strong feelings and that you feel guilty that you aren't developing those same feelings for her. Seriously though don't beat yourself up about it because if this girl felt like you did she would rip your heart out of your chest and wanna be friends right afterwards.

Just do it soon, the longer you prolong ending it the harder its gonna be for her, remember with a clingy woman every second means something to them so give her as little time as possible.